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Good for you @The_Little_Ladybird :+1:
The last thing you want or need to be is someone’s bit ont side to be cast off when they’ve had their fill.
A lot of men will probably see you as a cock hungry cougar (excuse the terminology please) as you’re now free and single.
And whilst the hungry part may be true at least you have standards and a good moral compass.

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I like that he’s setting boundaries and not just going for the instant gratification that would end up badly, good for him :clap:t2: ultimately its the right thing for you both.

Everywhere you look is a married man ready to cheat, makes me sad and is why I won’t have a relationship, I have no faith in them.

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5817

I hope you’re not tarring all married men with the same brush @JoCat

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I’m not, just the ones that are ready to cheat. And those in a relationship too.
If that doesn’t describe someone, then I’m not talking about them :slightly_smiling_face:

5819

I got a butchers delivery today and now my freezer is full of yummy meat again :upside_down_face:

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5820

@JoCat yes I do appreciate that he cares and that he has boundaries. Its a pity that Im not looking to build a relationship. Id love to have sex with him but respect that casual isn’t what he wants x

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5821

If that changes, and he’s available then I’m sure he’d appreciate you getting in touch and having a chat about it.

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5822

My apologies, I misread the post.

5823

No need, I’m not the greatest at putting intentions into words.

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5824

thanks so much! You answered every question I could have on that! Thanks!

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5825

Finally Friday! I know I’m glad it’s here. Have a brilliant day everyone :smiling_face::smiling_face:

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5826

Good for you regarding not wanting married men. I’m glad you have good morals @The_Little_Ladybird. I am sure the right man will come along and sweep you off your feet. You would certainly be a great catch, regarding a FWB would you consider going to a club? You would have to be careful to find the right person as you could be told anything.

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5827

@steve19 Im being greedy at the moment. Id like to meet someone organically I suppose. The thought of dating apps at this point dont appeal.

I am hopefully catching up with a guy I know this evening… we will see x

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5828

Its good to the greedy but also be choosy as well. Don’t just jump for the first. If I were single I would not have a clue about app’s so would be no good for me either. Good luck. @The_Little_Ladybird

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5829

@The_Little_Ladybird well good on him for explaining and apologising. That fwb you seek is just around the corner I know it :wink: x

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5830

@The_Little_Ladybird hope tonight goes well :crossed_fingers: I’ll be looking for an update :wink: x

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5831

Have a great evening @The_Little_Ladybird :crossed_fingers::slightly_smiling_face::hugs:

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5832

Thanks both @Knight1119 and @SteelA1 we sat and had a drink and a really good long chat.

Happy with that x

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5833

You’re welcome @The_Little_Ladybird x :slightly_smiling_face:

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5834

@The_Little_Ladybird glad it went well. I really hope it continues to and moves forward in a good way for you :kissing_heart: I say that with a hint of jealousy though :smirk::joy: x

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