@WillC - I sometimes put it on mullet mode just to annoy my partner 
Similarly i tighten jar and bottle lids to annoy mine! 
I have a cat that likes to unravel a roll if I donāt get up to feed her. The mullet is tidier too.
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Iām in bits at the moment. It was the funeral of that friend today, and obviously it was very emotional. But I was OK into the wake, when her daughter started handing out letters. Letters from my friend/mentor. Apparently, she wanted to make sure she said things to everybody that mattered if she died unexpectedly (which is what happened). The letter is why Iām in bits. Before my husband came along, she was about the only one who believed in me, and this letter is so positive and uplifting and humorous and so her. Iāll treasure it forever.
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Aww bless ya. Sounds like she was an amazing person who saw how amazing you are 
Thatās incredible. She sounds like a very, very special person. Iām so sorry for your loss 
What a wonderful thing to do x
@WillC @Knight1119 @Peitho @steviefun Yes, she was totally amazing and it was such a wonderful thing to do. But she was always preparing for stuff, so it shouldnāt have been surprised she had prepared for her death by writing letters. Yes @WillC, she saw something in me no one else saw at the time. I owe her nearly everything I am now. She said in the letter that she was so proud of me, both for what Iāve achieved against the odds and for the woman I now am, and that made me cry. In fact, itās starting me off again now.
Spent the evening cuddling with my husband who is almost as broken up as I am. Her mantra was always āLive your best lifeā, i.e. the best life you can, the fullest, the most interesting, the most exciting, whatever YOU can manage, do that. Us moving up north was part of that for us, and weāre living that every day now. Time is precious, and you never know when it is going to run out. Live your best life people.
Night night lovely people xx
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That is a lovely letter to receive, she sounds like a lovely lady who was very inspirational.
Keep it safe and refer to it as and when you need it. @KinkyMira
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Sounds like she was an amazing person. Sending hugs.
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Thank you everyone. She was lovely and gave her time generously even though she was ludicrously busy. Letter now in our fireproof box and scans are on our various devices. I never want to lose it.
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Looks like @Ian_Chimp is having a busy week of activities, remember to factor in rest days to avoid injury 
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The file size might be a bit too large for the forum 
You can try though!
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Thank you, Iāll have a play and see what I can do!
