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Hi @krzwis , I’ve moved your question to the lounge as that thread is just for posting your reviews in, if you so wish.

Basically, when the shopping site switched over we lost the ability to link to reviews and have all the ones we’d written in one place to easily view, which was very irritating. That thread is a way of getting around this problem. Certainly not all my reviews are posted there, but all the ones from the last few years and some from earlier for products that I still talk about on the forum. If you’re recommending a toy, or talking about one in a thread it makes it easier if you can link to your review of it. It also means for convienience, I can see all my reviews together. This link, for example, is just the OP and then only my posts within the thread. It also means for those who post photos wearing the lingerie, they can link them with the review, which is really helpful from my point of view as a potential purchaser.

There is no need to post your reviews there and it doesn’t change your chances of becoming a tester, it is just helpful for some of us. You don’t need to post all your reviews but maybe you’d like to post some for products you want to talk about or if anyone wants feedback on their reviews they can post some and ask for feedback in Reviewing Reviews.

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5804

That’s really good for you @The_Little_Ladybird and you must not forget the vast number of virtual friends you have here. I hope you had a wonderful bank holiday and remember not long until the weekend. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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5805

@The_Little_Ladybird he obviously wasn’t the man for you hey! Good luck with the new guy, hopefully he’s not as soft as the gym guy :crossed_fingers::kissing_heart:

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@SteelA1 just finished coaching with him. Its so weird, he is quite obviously attracted to me (of you catch my drift). Ah men huh :laughing:

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@The_Little_Ladybird well he needs to stop pussyfooting around the soft sod :smirk::joy:

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@SteelA1 its a shame. He basically got scared of getting hurt or hurting me, he explained and apologied. The chemistry is there but thats all I think. X

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@The_Little_Ladybird has the gym got a policy of no relationships with members? I know where I worked 2 people could notwork in the same place if in a relationship. I can understand it would be difficult coach/trainer if you did split.

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@steve19 its an informal arrangement. He isnt employed at the gym.

He is actually protecting himself. I need a fwb situation and I don’t think he is on the same page x

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He needs a librarian then so he can get on the right page. I assume fwb is a fxxk buddy? I hope i am right or am I being naive? @The_Little_Ladybird

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@steve19 friends with benefits…so yes fuck buddies.

X

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He felt “intimidated” by you! So @The_Little_Ladybird he talked the talk but couldn’t walk the walk…
I’m sure you’ll have nooo problems getting an fwb mind :heart_on_fire::heart_on_fire::heart_on_fire:

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@pootle problem is I seem to be a magnet for married men… and Im absolutely not doing that x

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Good for you @The_Little_Ladybird :+1:
The last thing you want or need to be is someone’s bit ont side to be cast off when they’ve had their fill.
A lot of men will probably see you as a cock hungry cougar (excuse the terminology please) as you’re now free and single.
And whilst the hungry part may be true at least you have standards and a good moral compass.

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I like that he’s setting boundaries and not just going for the instant gratification that would end up badly, good for him :clap:t2: ultimately its the right thing for you both.

Everywhere you look is a married man ready to cheat, makes me sad and is why I won’t have a relationship, I have no faith in them.

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I hope you’re not tarring all married men with the same brush @JoCat

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I’m not, just the ones that are ready to cheat. And those in a relationship too.
If that doesn’t describe someone, then I’m not talking about them :slightly_smiling_face:

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I got a butchers delivery today and now my freezer is full of yummy meat again :upside_down_face:

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@JoCat yes I do appreciate that he cares and that he has boundaries. Its a pity that Im not looking to build a relationship. Id love to have sex with him but respect that casual isn’t what he wants x

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If that changes, and he’s available then I’m sure he’d appreciate you getting in touch and having a chat about it.

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My apologies, I misread the post.