Based on what you have said there alone along what you said in another thread I am sure he would be up for it.
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@Flutterbye400 thats great to hear I am sure you will both enjoy it.
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@Flutterbye400 fantastic. Hope you both have amazing fun. I am obviously not envious ā¦!!! Keep us updated please
@Flutterbye400 alway happy to know more! just glad that you crossed that first hurdle, which is always the hardest one to cross. Glad I could help and the small way that I did. 
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Hi guys n girls, hope youm all well, Iāve had a bit of a break from the forum as i was starting to find myself getting jealous and envious of all the sexual exploits,and Iām not the type to suffer either!!!
Things are no better between me and my wife and to be honest i donāt think they ever will be! Life is just work,eat,sleep,repeat nowadays even a bit of conversation is getting difficult and life is feeling lonely more often than notā¦
Anyways hopefully back to stay now 
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Itās great to have you back @pootle you have been missed. Sorry to hear about your situation but try to talk/communicate and hopefully over time things will improve. I know what you mean though, I read posts and think my god every bodies having sex daily or something like that. Whereas Iām not, so you do feel down. Big hugs all round.
Hi @pootle Welcome back lovely. Sorry to read that youāve been affected by posts, its never a nice feeling to feel like youāre missing out and lonely. It sounds like its not just sexually but in other aspects of the relationship. I hope you can talk with her about how youāre feeling, not just sexually but in general with the relationship. Everyone deserves to be happy, whether thats with a partner in a relationship or alone.
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Mate - that sounds rough.
I totally agree with @JoCat - you deserve to be happy
My partner and I have had some rough patches. Iāve written about our most fun sexploits on this forum from time to time, but often life can be a grind, and we have been through some really difficult patches. Itās not all pussyjobs and smiles!!!
Therapy moved the dial for us - have you been to see someone together?
Sounds like you need a safe space to be honest about your needs and wants.
No idea what you guys are going through, and what you have tried so far.
Wishing you all the best @pootle
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Gonna watch it this afternoon, congratulations on your accomplishment! Bit of info i learned recently about Victoriaā¦she produced a porn movie!
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Those people are definitely wired differently. Iām OK on the missing vowels but Iām lucky if I get one one or two of the other questions correct.
Mind you my brain is probably dead by then as Monday night is definitely quiz night.
Pointless
Richard Osmondās House of Games
Mastermind
Only Connect
University Challenge
Bed.
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Haha the only one of those I donāt watch is Universally Challenged 
I love quiz shows and pick up no end of random trivia from places. I know a little about a lot, and a lot about very little!
Sometimes Iām lucky on Only Connect and can get the connections, I can usually get a couple on the walls; the last round is definitely my strength 
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All this talk about quizzes and not one of you has had a go at @M-Sfnb1 's Music Quiz! If I win by default it will be an absolute fallacy as we all know Music is by far my weakest subject and my attempt was pitiful. @WillC , come on, you are the forum Music Mastermind.
Monday night normally, is absolutely quiz night. Iām like @MsSubExperimenter and skip University Challenge though, too hard for me and definitely not as much fun as the others. I was, however, out last night for a catch with a friend over dinner which was lovely and definitely cheered me up AND I now have Only Connect to watch later in the week than normal and that will also make me happy 
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Sorry, i have been busy with family stuff and work, you are right i love quizzes and music, so it pains me to miss out!
Will try and participate in future quizzes 
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Just watched it, like you i got 100% on missing vowels, a couple on the wall, and a few connections, so i was happy with that!
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Many thanks @steve19 @JoCat @our-adventure-bed for your replies,it helps me alot.
Donāt know what else to say really, but perhaps when i get back into the swing of things on here it may be different.
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Thereās other topics to take part in, like music and games, films tv etc if that helps.
Always someone about if you need a distraction.
For sure get in on the quiz @pootle a wee non interactive change of pace and its non sexual so a great distraction. Iāll tag you so you can easily find it.
Use your imagination!