Hey guys. So, I’ve finally started to come to terms with the fact that SPH is a genuine turn on for me. It affected my mental health for years because I thought it meant something was wrong with me, but now, I actually find it frees me to the truth of myself. I have a small cock, and I’m actually proud of the fact I’ve found a sexual outlet for it. I know it’s a fairly taboo subject, but does anyone else feel the same? As in, the humiliation of it is actually self gratifying?
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I don’t have a penis and have no experience with this I’m afraid but I did have to Google “SPH” to find out what you were referring to. For snyone else slightly confused, I am assuming it is not St Philip Howard Catholic School which was what the search initially returned 
but “Small Penis Humiliation” further down the list?
I’m glad you have found a sexual outlet that you enjoy and take pleasure in. Enjoy it. Remember though, that in any form of sexual humiliation the aftercare is just (if not more) important than the experience so I hope you are getting that too.
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I agree with @Peitho here, I was scratching my head at first (almost two decades kinky and I’m still learning new things! ) but now I understand.
As a former humiliatrix it is womething I’ve come across before (just not called SPH) so I sort of understand it, but also generally as a woman wbo loves to deep-dive into the psychologies of kink (don’t start me on A Dangerous Method, we’ll be here all day! ), I understand why “flipping the narrative” and essentially seeking thet humiliation can be so empowering for you. If you enjoy it and it works for you, embrace it, and find someone who can embrace it with you. Just as Peitho said, don’t forget aftercare. Sometimes, the deeper we go, the more aftercare we need.
Have fun! 
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It’s really encouraging to hear of how you’ve come through on your body positive journey and are in a better place for it 
I also struggled with concerns over my lack of size. I’ve come to accept that I can’t change it. I’m open about it, which makes it easier.
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I do appreciate the concern, thank you. I’ve had to turn my most all consuming anxiety into a kink for self preservation I suppose… But some advice on ‘after care’ would be appreciated. I currently live it as a way of life kink, I suppose to avoid having to face the fear itself, but if you have any holistic advice to help compartmentalise the feeling, that would be really appreciated.
Sure thing, I wrote a page here about aftercare in BDSM. It’s sort of written for people with partners namely, but the one you have with yourself is the most important relationship you’ll have
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