In sex talk you always hear the same body parts , pussy , cock , tits , balls , anal . The three you rarely hear are the following . The brain , which is our largest sex organ . After all , what connects your nerves to give you feelings and gets you excited . Next up are your facial lips , kissing and sucking . And a favorite , the tongue . Does anyone not enjoy it lapping at your pussy or wrapped around the head of your cock ? To tease nipples and can be applied to many parts of the body for an exciting effect . Over my many years of sexual encounters I have given women orgasms with my tongue by licking their pussy , teasing their anal opening , tickling the back of her knee , running my tongue up her spine and licking her ear lobes . Another unique method for making a shivering orgasm is likely kissing her eyes . Thoughts on this subject ?
I love my husband stroking my face and neck lightly with his fingers, something he often does after our sessions. Its so soothing.
I love the scent of him that’s my first trigger point every time.
My wife goes crazy for an ear nibble, lick, stroke….so it must be erogenous ears for her 
A gentle all over massage, giving and receiving.
I love my wife running her finger nails up and down my back. Not scratching me, but lightly running them up and down.
She loves when I grab her feet and squeeze and massage them.
The OH loves a sensual massage, particularly her back.
The scent of my wife’s unshaven armpits wow! Especially if moist from sweat, ohhh! My!
I have a thing for hands. Show me a nice pair of strong, well manicured mans hands oh my. I love holding my husbands hand or when he strokes my hair.
You would love the childish game of “I draw a snake upon your back”
Right?! When he starts doing things with fine motor movements… oh my poor mind! Slow scroll on a mouse scroll button and I definitely start imagining that technique elsewhere! 
I have a very acute sense of smell but I pick up on the other smells, laundry detergent particularly. Men who smell not sprayed-on “clean” but clean home clean definitely rev my engine. I used to sleep on my husband’s hoodie because it smelled of Bold, and comfort makes me feel safe.
I’m also shamefully weak to proximity. I’m quite guarded but get into my personal space and my brain is going to start imagining things.
Plus you forgot one of the other most important unsung parts!!! The fingers/hands! 
Right you are . As an unused old sex toy , I dream of anybody doing anything to me . My wife enjoys my caressing and fondling her , but totally ignores my needs . She would rather not touch me unless prompted . My hetroflexible flexible side has be dreaming of having a same sex experience . Wife suggested again I take a trip to Nevada and go to a whore house . Told her just like an Olympic athlete that has not practiced their sport for 20 years , I would be lucky to last a full minute . Bad investment for several thousand dollars .
I love when I snuggle up to my husband the scent and heat from him… also hearing his heartbeat if I lie on his chest
Something may just be wrong with me, but I just don’t get kissing. My mentality to kissing relates to that scene in Friends, “it’s like the opening show before Pink Floyd comes out”, except dialed further down, like the stage manager came out and is explaining the cause for delay on why Pink Floyd will be performing later than scheduled. Any thoughts?
Your correct. Even before foreplay kissing, especially her kisses, drive me crazy. The scent of her skin, the softness of her skin leads up to foreplay if anything at all; or just reaffirm our bonds. No sex just kissing…
Sounds like you could do with a good Thai massage. Have you considered going to a spa at all?
I used to get full body massages ( legal ) , but place changed hands and jacked price way up . No happy ending places around here I would trust .
My husband wrapping me in his arms and breathing against my ear takes me to another dimension, it’s such an amazing feeling.
My OH has always enjoyed the tender running of my fingers down her back and being kissed on the side of her neck and very deep and passionate missing - all things that seem almost guaranteed to turn her on - there have been a few times when a tender kiss to the neck has triggered things! 