Sat here on a beautiful sunny Saturday morning , cup of coffee and the birds are singing thinking about tonight. So I was wondering where we all get your ideas and inspiration from. I have made a few assumptions, men see something on a porn clip and think I'd like to try that. Well are we here on LH a bit more imaginative than most.
Where do you get your ideas from and are men and women different?
We both watch a fair bit of porn, mainly from the likes of kink.com so might see something we want to try. Books are also a good source of inspiration, that said you cant beat a really dirty mind!
My best and most successful ideas have always arrived in the moment and work off of what's happening then and there. It just works better for me when a partner and I are really in synch with what's going on for the other. Plans have always gotten in the way of that. If I've made any, they've been set aside quickly and I've never had a good experience when a partner's made plans and stuck to them.
Scenes from TVs or a book also love making up my own scenario with information I've got from the web.
Toys on here or just imagination, we don't tend to have an action plan just each time try one new thing and just do what we fancy in the heat of the moment
Spot on rose hip, never works for me to plan out what's happening, she usually falls asleep or is too tired if we plan a night, a goodnight kiss will turn into a bj or a fanny rub, which turns into sex, we just go with the flow and more often than not it all ends well x
We never plan , I like to be spontaneous. Though I do like to throw in a few things I've seen in porn and I've noticed OH does too.
As I only get to see my OH at weekends I find that over the course of the week the saucy text messages tend to gradually turn into a loose plan of action :)
rose hip wrote:
My best and most successful ideas have always arrived in the moment and work off of what's happening then and there. It just works better for me when a partner and I are really in synch with what's going on for the other. Plans have always gotten in the way of that. If I've made any, they've been set aside quickly and I've never had a good experience when a partner's made plans and stuck to them.
 Same here, we prefer to just go with the flow so to speak.