I have been debating this question with myself for an eternity but having spent today on a beach where seemingly every girl was wearing one, I am compelled to ask a wider audience: do you find thongs to be inherently sexual and, if relevant, do you wear them because of it (or otherwise)?
Personally, seeing a perfectly framed ass in one is one of life’s great joys and I have always suspected that those who wear them are demanding that fact be noticed…
I’ve always felt thongs were designed to have a sexual appeal to them more than anything and guess in many ways people that wear them might have that in back of mind thinking they want to look sexy to others wearing them… but of course alternatively some do just wear them for comfort and to not have pant lines show through clothing.
It is not inherently sexual if she has pubic hair stubble that is showing. I know that laser hair removal and waxing can be problematic, but stubble ruins the effect.
I find thongs on women very sexual they just look amazing with nice toned/athletic bum either side of it. Wish the wife would wear thongs more but since child birth she doesn’t find them comfy cuz the top sits on the c section scar
Speaking from both male and female perspectives:
My wife initially started wearing them to prevent vpl, and after getting used to them she finds them more comfortable and cannot stand wering full knickers now.
I love seeing her in them. They look sexy when she is undressed, and when dressed in tight clothes they give her ass a lovely natural shape.
This style of underwear is minimalistic in that a greater proportion of flesh is exposed (like the g-string).
The cut, and design, of thongs accentuates the buttocks whilst providing the minimal coverage of the pubic area. This creates the appeal of this underwear.
The length of lthe wearers’ legs (and size and shape of their buttocks) are accentuated adding to their sexual appeal.
Minimising VPL is an added bonus.
We often compliment each other on the appealing trim shape (and size) of our buttocks. We enjoy showcasing them whist wearing thongs from our collection.
Ye on certain people they look great. Mrs hates them and wouldn’t wear. I don’t care anyway what she wears is up to her. The underwear is only a gift wrapping to be removed
I pretty much only exclusively wear thongs these days, they look great and I find them weirdly more comfortable than traditional knickers. I wouldn’t say that they’re always worn with the Intent to be sexy but they look so fabulous that they achieve it almost every time (;
@WaveyAlien my wife had a couple of thongs
Never saw her wearing them as she complained about them being uncomfortable up her bum
When I wear a sexy thong it’s exactly that feeling I enjoy walking around with the tight material pulling up my bum crack and my cock straining againt the lace front lol
Love them. All I wear (pretty much just men’s ones) and love to see them on women, whether as bikini bottoms or through tight clothes. There probably is something abit sexual about them because they are so skimpy and show off the bottom.
Going back to the original question … are they inherently sexual? … my immediate response is yes. My wife and I only wear have them as a prelude to sex and not publicly.
However, I had an experience last summer not like what prompted the original post. We were at our favourite beach and g string swimmers have become quite a regular item for women. Seeing them on women swimming and lying on towels is becoming mainstream. But what got me thinking was when I went to the cafe overlooking the beach to get a coffee. I joined the queue and the woman at the back was talking to someone at a table. When she turned to face forward in the queue, I realised she had a g string bikini on. Standing so close to a stranger’s exposed bottom in a shop environment actually felt a bit awkward, as though I had no right to be that close to a bare bum. On the beach you never get that close to a stranger but standing in the queue we were maybe half a metre apart. The woman herself obviously felt perfectly comfortable and I fully respect her right to wear what she wants. But there was something odd about the situation. I guess the awkwardness I felt points back to my original comment that I feel they are inherently sexual.
On the beach my partner will always wear a thong if it’s an appropriate option or a cheeky bikini bottom if not. She looks great and has a lovely little bum that she works hard on at the gym but It’s not a desire to look sexy or excite others its just a desire to be tan line free. If topless or nudity was allowed she would be the first to strip off.
Brilliant. Love to see women wearing thongs on the beach both because its great to look at and also as I think it helps drive the acceptance of men wearing them.
This gets to the heart of what I have been thinking about.
In a beach club, for example, it seems simple to assume that women are wearing thongs to make themselves more sexually appealing and so perhaps in that sense they are inherently sexual.
But in reality, clearly thongs are worn by many on a day to day basis, whether for comfort (though it staggers me that they can be comfortable - happy to hear I wrong on this from women!) or otherwise, and it becomes more difficult to think of a thong under a suit or baggy jeans etc. as being sexual in the slightest.
So context might matter more than the fact of simply the wearing a thong. In any case, I always enjoy the frisson of assuming a thong lurks beneath whatever may be being worn.