Oh yeah dude. Just think she doesn’t instantly get arroused either - why should we think we need to instantly stand to attention. Sometimes it takes a moment sometimes it takes a lot longer. If I have had a few drinks it sometimes takes a bit. use that time to slap it around a bit and have fun with it. Don’t worry - I love the time it takes to get hard - I find that to be a very stimulating time and love it. I also find that I can get it up if I am still wearing my briefs and just play with it while it is all contained helps just using that “bunched up” state to rub it against her or to play with it myself can get me going. But you need to have tighter briefs - no boxers.
If soft she will masturbates me hard, usually I only need to look at her in lingerie or naked and I am rock solid.
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Usually soft or thereabouts and then get hard quickly. Sometimes hard to start but rare
Depends what you mean by getting going, but for me pretty much as soon as we start to kiss and I get a handful of boob or a feel of her downstairs then that’s it, I’m hard in a few seconds.
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I normally get hard quick. Or at least semi hard.
In the evenings when our children are upstairs asleep on our lounge floor I normally play with my nipple’s before she cums in and that gets me hard and she said “you’re ready to go” 