Was wondering what are peoples thoughts on oral sex ..giving it and more importanly receiveing it. Especially for females receving oral.
For me personally as a male I love giving oral to my OH ..but like that would like to try new técniques and keep things fresh..
What are your thoughts on Receiving Oral sex and what are your experiances good or bad .
I love my OH give me Oral. But she doesn’t like to swallow. I know she doenst like the texture or taste.. like that I dont want to force things she doesnt like or want to do.
Know I’m not a chick, but I’m on the fence most of the time when it comes to oral. Sometimes cunnilingus sounds hot to me, but other times it’s like “I don’t want my tongue there”. I don’t know, maybe I just think it’s a little too unclean.
I dont know about other women but i always wash down there before any fun time regardless of whether or not i receive oral. Not sure if hubby does but he never tastes bad apart from the precum, which is so salty so i use flavoured lube to help with that.
My wife loves me giving her Oral..we use it quiet often for foreplay, in saying that like you @Romanticguy she doesn’t like to to swallow when she is giving me Oral.
I REALLY! love going down on my girlfriend as well as the other women in my past relationships and they loved doing the same to me. I really loved their scent and taste down there. I would say the only bad is that I have never been able to come when receiving oral in my current and past relationships so I am ok with that because my current girlfriend and past one say that they never liked men coming in their mouth because like other women they don’t like the taste and texture. Now my current girlfriend has me also rimming anally too whenever I go down on her which I has hesitated of doing. She asked me would I do it for her and I finally did if this past weekend as it was like that I grove her crazy because she loved it so much. I had her orgasming like crazy and by the time we were done with the hold session she was exhausted.
I absolutely love giving my OH oral, it is my favourite position if I am honest, the intimacy of it and trying to guarantee her an orgasm and finding different ways to achieve it!! I do like a BJ but preferable if I can give her an orgasm too!!!
I absolutely love giving. I know it sounds cliche but I’m a pleaser. I love everything about it. How it feels, the power over me, sometimes the control over him. Oooooo just thinking about the things I can do!
I prefer giving a blow job……. My husband is fab at oral….. flicks and sucks my clit with his tongue and eats my pussy out … i like receiving if he has fingers up my ass at the same time …… this is a recent addition
If you try the search function at the top, there are probably plenty of threads already on this topic.
Most of us love doing it, most of us love receiving it. My husband expressed his approval of my blowjob skills only yesterday, and that was without me sucking him off first
I absolutely adore going down and eating my OH’s bald naked pussy. The feeling of her body tensing up then shuddering as she orgasms over my face is exquisite.
One of my favorite things is giving oral to my wife. Being a singlularily focused exercise, that is, the one receiving can just relax and enjoy the experience. Anything that happens afterward is just desert.
I love going down on my partner it’s rare when we make love that I don’t,I love the taste and smell of her pussy and her reaction to my tongue in her pussy and arse,every love making session she’s brought to orgasm from my tongue at least once,when we met she had never let anyone go down on her previous, the first time I went to she tried to stop me due worrying about it “tasting or smelling” I put my finger over her lips told her to shush and enjoy after a few minutes she relaxed put her hands on back of my head and she was having time of her life,safe to say didn’t take too long for her to have a shuddering orgasm and she’s never tried to stop me since,as for her giving me oral its usually as foreplay now and then which I love but a full on finish to the end blowjob is rare because I’d rather finish in her pussy or arse or from a blowjob she loves me to cover her tits when I finish
I just love going down on a woman!
I just love everything about it, from taste to being in charge of her cuming.
I also love to receive. Nothing beats the feelings.
As an aside
A work a former work colleague asked me " have you ever had a bad blow job.
Puzzled i asked err no?
Have you i asked?
Yeah it was f******marvellous
When I first met my present wife, we talked on the phone a lot before meeting FTF. During one call somehow it came up that she swallowed. This was an aspect that my prior (and deceased) wife was fabulous at. Not just the swallowing, but also seeming to actually enjoy all of it. Never rushing me and always taking however long I needed to get there.
So when my present wife and I were “new”, she would do it, but it always felt like she was in a hurry to get it over with. Often asking me if I can “help her out” by masturbating myself in order to get there more quickly. She did swallow as advertised, but given the aspects of seeming rushed, it makes the whole thing sub par. So yes, “bad blowjobs” do exist.
Sadly, she suffers from depression and psych issues and she’s on a ton of different meds. Between that and my own ED our sex life has become basically non-existent. I really hate that!
I’m with you! I love all of it. And for me, I enjoy the “natural” taste of an unwashed pussy more than a “fresh out of the shower” taste. I actually enjoy giving oral to the point where I can be quite satisfied just making my partner have great orgasms and stopping there. Although I like orgasms too. LOL
I do much prefer when she isn’t shower fresh so I can enjoy her taste and smell more,do prefer it to have been a few hours since shower although she isn’t always too happy about that to begin with but once my tongue starts down there she soon changes her mind , not sure I can agree on being satisfied just from eating her I’m way too excited after that
Yes you should be more open and discuss things, it has always worked for us.
There is no point things festering in your head, the clock is ticking away and will never run backwards, in a few years it may be too late who knows.
Sometimes its better to approach it clinically away from playtime, other times it can be appropriate during intimacy to say something about how you liked it last time when you did X or Y and shall we do it again ?
Occasionally if you are brave it can work if you just ‘go for it’ when you sense the mood is right, but for many couples that can go wrong.
