Love receiving it. Never given it
I absolutely love eating my lover. It makes me rock hard when she multiple orgasms from it.
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Love both giving and receiving I have even given and received from our trans friend OH wants to see me take a MANS cock itās one of her biggest fantasies and the thought of watching me really turns I have no interest whatsoever in men but the thought of me fulfilling her fantasy and her sitting in a chair masturbating to the scene is starting to give me more and more thoughts of sucking off a man and have him cum in my mouth.is starting to turn me on
I love to give and receive oral! It is like my favourite.
My OH is a really talented BJ giver but I rarely receive these days because she doesnāt like my taste. It also means she doesnāt let me go down on her because of this aversion.
Flavoured lube helps, we use lh birthday cake and it helps with the taste of precum. I still wont let him cum in my mouth though as that is just too much for me.
Love doing oral to her and having bj
How does everyone feel about giving or receiving oral?
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Love giving oral love the wet all over my face and bj is always brilliant
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I absolutely love receiving oral, and can orgasm a good few times from it.
Actually, just thinking about it now is getting me a bit tingly 
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Love it, receiving and giving - important part of sex for us
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Going down on my wife is possibly my favorite thing in the world - I absolutely would do it everyday/every time we had sex if she wanted. She, however, really only enjoys it fully if sheās able to get in the right headspace. If sheās not quite riled up to start with her mind is prone to wandering and distraction, usually the stresses of the day, but sometimes to fantasies she doesnāt want to entertain or negative self-talk about her body. Something about the lack of face-to-face and full body contact keeping her grounded. I donāt fully understand, but I respect it. I appreciate that sometimes sheāll let me go down for a taste and then call it off if sheās not there and we just finish PIV with her manually stimulating herself to O.
I also love to receive oral, but I tend to be a very hard cum from oral alone so it is usually strictly foreplay rather than a main event. Regularly used as part of power play with lots of degrading dirty talk (as she likes it). I really wish it wasnāt so difficult for me as I do love the feel of that last real forced stimulation and then thereās a very gentle after-sensation as she swallows after every spurt; itās indirect and feels oh, so good.
I love performing oral sex on women, only my wife now since Iām married, but itās something I really enjoy myself too I mean.
I might go against the grain here as a male but Iāve never really liked oral sex to be performed on me.
I love giving a guy oral sex and it makes me feel so good to sexually please another man.
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Giving oral to my wife is one of my favorite things. I love to lick her clitoris, VERY slowly, and build the sensations until she is going crazy. Then, put my finger in her and massage her g-spot and lick at the same time. It always makes her cum, even when she is struggling.
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Thoughts on oral sex?
I love doing it, performing it on my partner but Iām not really a fan of oral sex being done on me even though so many men seem to love and want that done to them often.
I love oral on my OH especially if thereās cream pie involved, love receiving from OH especially when she pushes my foreskin back with her lips as I enter her mouth and sheās looking me in the eyes.
Personally I love getting a blowjob if Iām lucky enough. I also really enjoy spreading my Wifeās legs and putting my face between them as Iām on my knees and sheās on the bed.
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Iām with you JerseyMom. Love giving head. The power to make him cum and fill my mouth with his load is so Hot and makes my arousal even stronger.
I just have to wonder if you have had a good giver!! My man didnāt care for it but after a few times of me doing it for him now heās always fretting over where he wants to cum in me the most. Iāve made a believer of him! Maybe you just need to experience someone who loves to give it.
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Very good insight and in many cases that would be correct.
There was one lady, Kristin, who was beyond talented with her mouth, tongue, kissing, licking, more than just oral sex is my point. Sheās no longer with us.
Yes, oral sex with her, from her, was wonderful. For Kristin, it was more about her as SHE loved it, wanted it, wanted to do it etc. Sure I and others she performed oral sex on really liked it and she did that on both men and women but it was something that she herself just really loved and wanted to do. She enjoyed all of it.
And could she ever kiss!
But as for the restā¦ Like many things in life, itās a combination of things. Part of it is my girth. Most oral sex with me is licking and using their hands. Part of it is that some people, not all, but some, simply donāt like performing oral sex. I guess Iāve not been lucky with some of my partners.
Take my ex-wife for instance. I wish this werenāt true, but it is. In a bit over 16 years that we were married, I received ZERO blowjobs from her.
But, but, but, did I go down on her? You bet and not just for her, but for me as I genuinely like doing that, always have. She liked it too.
Now, she did give me two blowjobs before we were married, just one to completion but none after we were married.
My 2nd wife, married in late 2013) is wonderful, love her so much, things are night and day different with her than my 1st wife but even though she is sex positive and we have a nice active sex life, blowjobs are still an issue. She isnāt against them, likes doing them but between her and me, itās a lot of work for her.
Iām sure you know, but penises come in different shapes, the head of the penis is different, circumcised, not circumcised etc.
The head of my penis is the proverbial firemanās helmet. Iām circumcised (American, born in the 60ās and it was chop, chop all the time back then) and the glans of the head of my penis are such that the girth of the head of my penis is larger around than the girth on my shaft.
At best, just the head of my penis is able to get into my wifeās mouth.
My wife is amazing, I love our sex life, weāre active and we do many things to and with each other. I have zero complaints about it or her regarding our sex life. I wouldnāt trade her in for any other lady. Iām lucky, blessed and fortunate to have her as a best friend, a life partner, a spouse.
And Iāve not had a blowjob from anyone other than my current wife since a good bit before I married her in late 2013 and itās my hope, dream and wish to never have sex with anyone else other than my current wife for the rest of my life even though that means blowjobs really arenāt an item on the menu for me/us in terms of our sexual lives together.
She MORE than makes up for it in many other ways.
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