Im a balck guy who recently moved to Asia. I met this lady on tinder and we started having a conversation. A few days later she asked me if I was willing to have a thresome with her and her husband and that she wants to try a black guy. So we met for coffee first and had a chat. A week later we arranged and met at a hotel where it was him,his wife and myself. I did get the feeling that the threesome was his idea because he was excited and the wife was not so saying much. So when we start the guy tells his wife to relax and she starts kissing me and we take off each other’s clothes and we start having sex. Meanwhile the husband is sitting on a chair just watching. I enjoyed he and she came multiple times. We fucked for about 2 hours straightuntil she said she was tired.We did this on numerous occasions. One day I decided to stop the arrangement because I was confused as to why someone would want to watch their wife being fucked hardcore for hours on end. Please help me realize what is happening and what I might be missing here. Has anyone else been in this situation. Thank you
Never had it, but I’m several forums. You are the bull. They haven’t called it that way, because I think they’re not ready for it.
Sounds like it’s his fantasy to watch his wife with another man and she agreed to it, to keep him happy? I maybe wrong 
Sounds hot to me. I love this dynamic and we’ve done it a few times. I don’t like to be humiliated though, just enjoy watching and joining in.
That’s their kink. The moment you leave, they’ll have reclaim sex, to stake their territory again. My husband and I aren’t so different; we often let our minds wander toward a third. For him, the draw is the visual of me with someone else precisely, though he never wants to be just a spectator.
I’ve always respected both of them on all occasions.
Hmm, did you ever get any vibes that she wasn’t wanting this arrangement or she was just doing it for him?
I actually did get those vibes which is also why I stopped the arrangement
My partner often comments how much he would love to watch another bloke fuck me whilst he watches me moan. We haven’t acted on his fantasy as it’s not something I want to do but he gets excited just talking about it
As long as it is just a fantasy, there is no harm done, but if he keeps on about it and wants it to become reality you will have to make your feelings clear that it will not happen, bullyiing is not acceptable and no one should be forced to do something they dont want to do.
Then yes I think you done the right thing to have stopped it as there’s nothing worse than being a third wheel in a forced arrangement that could potentially nearly boarder onto sexual abuse 
Poor woman is probably still going through it with someone else.
Almost certainly is no doubt if the husband be pulling the strings over her. Can only hope she has some support around her to cope or at best stand up to her own wants.
You’re assuming she’s being coerced into it though.
My experience is that most women will make it clear what they are willing to do or not.
Thats not the impression that i got from the OP. There are rare cases of men where their partners are not into it where they have been drugged to be more compliant recent case in Swindon. I think it is more common than we realise especially where relationships are abusive.
Oh no bullying or pressure from him. He completely understands it’s not for me and is ok with it being a fantasy 