Hi All, my first post here so please be gentle. Me and my wife have been together 14yrs and married 7 and in our mid 30s. We have had a very good sex life until the point of children (we have 2). After the children my wife became very uninterested in sex which i imagine most new parents experience. In the last 6 months we have become more active and a little more adventerous. We have spoken about some fantasies and a common fantasy we share is a MMF threesome. We have roleplayed with some LH toys and i have never seen my wife so excited and orgasm quite like i have when we have been roleplaying a MMF. We are both straight, but both have a MMF at the top of our fantasy list. We are talking about making fantasy reality and we are very split about introducing a stranger or someone we both know. (not that we know anyone that would be willing without dropping some subtle hints nor have we discussed anyone in particular). We really wondered for those that have tried this or similar and what their experiences were with strangers vs someone they know
I think you both must be 100% in favour of this before even considering it. I would also consider going to a club where you may find someone willing to take part with you both. By going to the club you don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to, you could just watch if you wanted to.
Hi Steve, thank you for your reply/ advice. We would definitely only proceed if we were both agreeable to the third party. We have spoken about a club but we are both a little nervous. I imagine there is good and bad at all clubs. Have you been to any that you could recommend?
I have not been to any unfortunately and of course depends where in the country you are. I am sure you will get some recommendations though on here. It sounds like you will have lots of fun.
Yeah location would help. We are in just north of London. Hoping for lots of fun thanks
Hello and welcome @AddSpice 
Threesome and swingers clubs are very popular subjects on here. If you have a search you should find plenty of topics about them you can have a read of while you wait for more replies. 
Hi Ian, Thank you for pointing us in the right direction. We are having a read about some interesting topics and recommendations. Thanks
I prefer with friends. I have an open group of friends who are down with that sort of thing. I don’t really like to do it with somebody we haven’t met beforehand, and close friends who are fine with it seems to work best for us. Strangers, in my experience, are just a lot more awkward because they don’t know you, your partner, what you like, what you don’t like, amongst other things. I just 100% prefer with friends or at least people I get to know for a few drinks with first.
As @Ian_Chimp has pointed out there are lots of previous topics on threesomes and MMF.
What is the interest in it for you ? Fun with guy ? Touching or seeing another guy with your OH
We are straight but has intrigued us…. But I worry of the jealousy of another guy with OH and also perception or what OH would think if I enjoyed experience of me giving / taking with guy.
Not sure if it’s just best left as fantasy 
I’d recommend opting for a stranger 100%.
We’ve had many a thressome and moresome. Never with friends or people we know, always via swinging.
There’s much to risk adding a known acquaintance to your sex life and once that boundary has been crossed there’s no going back. With a stranger there’s no impact on any other aspect of your life and minimal risk of any added complications regardless of how well or badly the interaction goes.
You can decide how much pre event contact you want and there’s nothing stopping you meeting with the ‘stranger’ socially once or more often before anything happens, to make sure all are comfortable and happy. Likewise you can make it a one off or plan to meet again. But by keeping any ‘fun’ only between you and someone not already in your social circle you keep things separated.
Which makes normal life much easier. 
Hello and welcome to the forum 
Hi @MK7 , thank you for your reply and sharing your experiences. We have a couple of friends that could be a possibility but we have no idea what there thoughts on the idea would be so we wil tread careful as not want to ruin a relationship with them or be the talk of the group/ town. Appreciate your comments
Hi @Daisy1982, i have no interest in having any sexual fun with the ither guy. I am straight and not curious! My wifes main fantasy is to experience sex with 2 guys at the same time and mine is to watch her get excited and have that experience with a new guy and also join in to see her lose herself in that pleasure and excitment with 2 guys! I have no jealousy issues. She does get attention when we are out as is an attractive lady( appreciate i am bias
) and i enjoy the fact she gets the attention. Thanks for your comments
Hi @Rob36, you make some very good points and we were more in favour of a stranger. Someone we can maybe meet online, zoom with and maybe meet for a coffee before anything went furher to make sure we are all on the same page and set boundaries!! I agree with the seperation of keeping it away from everyday life if it was a stranger. Thank you
Hi @Latex73 , thank you and hello, looking forward to contributing to future member posts
Hi there and welcome ! Not going to add anything else on the 3some just agree with the advise you have been given already by previous comments ! Good luck hope it works out for you both
Thanks @Gazza_64 appreciated