We have our second planned threesome in just 5 days (on Saturday).
Me and hubby enjoyed the first one so much we are doing it all again.
As a novice any tips?
This is a fantasy of mine..... just out of curiosity how did you make it happen? Did you go down the route of posting on a swingers site etc? Don't think I could let it happen that's why it has always remained a fantasy!
It started out as cross wires.
We were going off for a trip to Amsterdam and I kept saying for months to hubby I'll get you a hooker. Not a back street 50e hooker a "classy escort". He always said no, no, no and thought I was joking, until 3 days before he said would you join in and I said yes that was the whole idea.
We we paid 500e for the services of a beautiful Dutch 31 year old for an hour.
The planning and the leading up made us both so horny we had amazing sex.
It was everything and more than I expected, our sex life is what I would class as normal and adding this occasional fun makes it feel like the first days we were together.
The rules are fun is only together, it's not a free for all to have sex whenever with whoever. We trust each other. There are no real rules for during either as I can't be bothered to get all emotional over something as silly as he enjoyed her breasts too much.
To make it less complicated we decided to hire a professionsl again in the country as I don't have time to be meeting and wheedling out internet weirdos.
The lady in question is mid thirties, is independent, has an amazing website which ticked all our boxes.
After reading her site I was desperate to get her booked and luckily she had space.
I'm so excited. I love planning it, what I will wear, what hubby will wear.
I have read some people say it's fantasy and leave it as fantasy but for us we cannot belive what it has done for our sex life, before and probably after like last time.
We have toyed with the idea of going to a sex party but who knows
We will hopefully go to Amsterdam one day as we both really want to watch a live sex show. I don't know if the threesome will ever happen as don't know if mentally I could cope with it as I have severe trust issues and think I would freak out! We have thought about going to a swingers club just to watch but i would be worried i might see someone i know! Thanks for letting me know how you managed it and hope you both have fun on Saturday!
Do your research on the live sex shows some of them (so I'm told) are rubbish and you pay a lot of money for them. With good research you will find a worth while one.
I'm a bag of nerves and excitement....it's all good.
If you would have asked me 12 months ago I would have said no way but I've concluded that I'm getting as much fun as he is.
We have thought about swingers club but for some reason we have never been. I wouldn't be concerned with seeing someone I know as hey they are there for the same reason ;-)
You have to 100% trust that you or your partner can never use it as a bargaining chip or an excuse to misbehave. If you can then go have some fun. It's not for everyone but you can still have the hot thoghts about it
MrsT3 wrote:
Do your research on the live sex shows some of them (so I'm told) are rubbish and you pay a lot of money for them. With good research you will find a worth while one.
I'm a bag of nerves and excitement....it's all good.
If you would have asked me 12 months ago I would have said no way but I've concluded that I'm getting as much fun as he is.
We have thought about swingers club but for some reason we have never been. I wouldn't be concerned with seeing someone I know as hey they are there for the same reason ;-)
You have to 100% trust that you or your partner can never use it as a bargaining chip or an excuse to misbehave. If you can then go have some fun. It's not for everyone but you can still have the hot thoghts about it
Still a novice too , but you are right about the rules.... We have turned down a single bi-woman, because we don't want singles in the relationship. We feel that playing with couples there is somebody to keep the other in the couple from getting needy, or heaven forbid that they have a bad time (it can happen) then they aren't left to deal with it themselves. We really don't see the latter happening but we have set the benchmark to which we will play, and never alone or with lone people.
Its good to see someone wishes come true, its one of mine to have a ffm but to date all been seperate. If it was me Just have lots of fun
MrsT3 this is exactly what me and my wife want to plan for our trip to Amsterdam. We are both 100% sure with ourselves and each other so no problems with jealousy etc.
One problem we do have is being total novices at where to go to hire the services of such a lady. We have discussed it and are worried about being ripped off or worse in some trouble some how.
Do you have any tips?
Many Thanks
M
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Strangely enough I had also reached the conclusion that a professional was the way forward for our first FFM. I have been scouring adultwork.com, plenty of independent ladies with plenty of reviews.
My wife didn't want to use a swingers site, and preferred someone she knew. But how do you go asking friends to join In!?
Oooh! We'll be keeping a close eye on this thread as we might be having our first FFM at the end of the month! With a single fellow swinger.
We considered hiring a professional, but the only one we found who we both were interested in wanted to charge more than double the price because there were two of us. We'd be the Ines doing all the work and it was too much money at the time.
Hope it goes as well for you as your first time! Please report back with tips for us all!
Thank you BigInBerkd, I checked out the website and they have one in the Los Angeles California USA. Found some ladies that look very promising to go to see. Thank you again.BigInBerks wrote:
Strangely enough I had also reached the conclusion that a professional was the way forward for our first FFM. I have been scouring adultwork.com, plenty of independent ladies with plenty of reviews.
My wife didn't want to use a swingers site, and preferred someone she knew. But how do you go asking friends to join In!?
I'm my last post was not on topic, but had to check out the website.