Right for anyone that might of read my post about my “slag era” will know i have a fwb but also want to meet another actual friend and wasn’t sure anyway long story short is I told my fwb wasn’t sure on having a three some but he’s now agreed to it and no I didn’t force him or put pressure on him before anyone thinks that but now we’ve agreed to do it ( on Thursday ) I’m getting a bit nervy in case I make a idiot of myself and don’t know what I’m doing 
has anybody ever had a threesome and if so do you have any tips? Preferably if you’re a female and had one as the advice would obviously be better for me but still males advice is appreciated 
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I have never done it and to be honest not something I would want with my wife. Just both our preferences.
However this came up on reddit and someone made a good point. In this specific case why not hire an escort?
They are professional.
They are not likely to catch feelings.
Less chance of any insecurities coming through from either party because it is transactional.
Discretion.
I gather there is some form of garuntee with sexual health.
Again i have never done it. Its not on any wish list. I think my wife feels the same. Just a different walk of life. I just thought it was a different but intelligent arguement.
Good luck.
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@gracelangstaff2004
I have in the past done a few three ways - and the best is when it’s fmm (2 men wanting you as a woman) compared to ffm (2 woman and 1 man)
When it’s you and 2 men it’s wonderful as every part of you is played with and you don’t need to think much - however if it’s 2 women and 1 man you need to think more as you have to share the penis and discuss on what to do - and then you get paranoid- your head starts thinking that he prefers the other women…. Can also be frustrating
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Spot on. My oh says exactly that if she has 2 plus guys all her attention but she is not sharing cocks !!
Male here who has had threesomes.
Just to reply to your comment about potentially making an idiot of yourself. That really can’t happen, or it can… it would just be really difficult to do.
Worst case scenario you can just lie there and have one person doing stuff to your lower body and the other do stuff to your upper body… and rely on them switching as and when is necessary.
Again, from a man’s perspective, I feel like it’s a lot easier for us to make an idiot of ourselves than for you to. So I wouldn’t worry about that.
Just enjoy it.
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First times are bound to be a bit of a learning but the best thing you can do is just go with it and enjoy the moment however it plays out
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FFM or MMF?
Assume lingerie, condoms & lube to be packed. Toys if backup is required…
You’re the star of the show, just enjoy yourself.
FMM and yep we have lubes and condoms hahah
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Nerves have turned to excitement after looking at tips online and watching porn ( I know porn is nothing like real life ) but it’s still got me excited I can’t wait now
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Good luck, hope it is everything you want it to be. Do you plan to report back in? Your choice of course, not asking you to do so.
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I will if enough people are interested but I doubt people will be that bothered? 
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@gracelangstaff2004 I think you have more of an audience than you will tomorrow night! I for one am looking forward to an update 
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@gracelangstaff2004 without a doubt we need an update but more so to hopefully find out it went well for you ………fingers crossed but not literally lol
It’s a really common question on here so think there will be quite a few people interested to hear how you get along.
Excited for you too. 2 is better than 1, enjoy…
and also more than happy to hear of your exploits. Go get ‘em Tiger!
My first ever three some 
thank you for people who left some advice etc
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Beats a crusty old sandwich and bag of crisps for lunch. Hope you enjoyed yourself.