Hello. Brand new to this site. I have a pretty intense tickling fetish. My wife is aware but not interested. Looking for advice on how to change her mind.
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Hi and welcome to the forum @rsmith51259 
The simple answer is that you can’t make her change her mind.
You can have an open and honest conversation with her about it, tell her how important it is to you, but if she’s not interested then she’s not interested and you need to respect that. There’s nothing wrong with not being into something after all, each to their own 
Is your fetish worth potentially ending the relationship over if it’s a no? Just something to consider.
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Helloooooo mr tickle
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Welcome to the club @rsmith51259 - as for tickling I agree with @MsSubExperimenter just talk to your partner
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Is it that you like to do the tickling and she doesn’t like to receive? Or you want to be tickled and she doesn’t get anything from doing it? If she doesn’t like receiving you can’t force her to want it. If it’s she doesn’t like giving it, maybe you could compromise by giving her something that she wants but you don’t get anything from?
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Firstly, welcome to the forum.
I completely agree with @MsSubExperimenter. i have quite a strong medical fetish but hubby couldn’t care less about it. Unfortunately, sometimes you just have to accept that they’re not into it. Could ethical non-monogamy be an option for you both to consider? It helps some people in situations like this. Good luck 
I strongly agree with both @MsSubExperimenter and @CraigW .
If you are the one that likes to be restrained and tickled then you need to have an open, completely frank and honest conversation about it with your wife, away from the bedroom. She may well not be into it, but I’d be surprised if she wasn’t willing to give tickling you a try. I think most relationships have aspects of sex or kink that one partner is more into than the other, and often the one that gets less from it is still willing to give it a go. She might not see the point but if she sees and understands how much you enjoy it and get from it that might be enough for her to partake on occassions.
If you are the one that wants to tickle her, be prepared for a flat out, “no”. I love being seductively touched, fingers running over my back and neck for example but tickle my sides and it’s a huge turn off for me!
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If the fetish is you tickling her - but she doesn’t like it - forget about changing her mind. I don’t think it’s possible.
I hate being tickled, and even if my wife said she had arranged for a dozen naked lesbians to come round and tickle me, the answer would still be no.
If, on the other hand, you want her to tickle you, I don’t think that’s much to ask of somebody you share a bed with.
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….what about 2 dozen? 
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Welcome to the club! Time to crack out the feathers lol 
She’s said no, you should accept it. I hate the questions of how do I change her mind, its so manipulative. If you’ve had a proper conversation about it and she’s not into it, in whatever variation you’re wanting it, then thats it.
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Gday
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Not even three dozen.
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