I would like some advice before I buy a harness and dildo! Complete novice and I want to suprise my husband for Christmas and buy a harness to use on him.
I have to have clit stimulation to cum, has anyone got any suggestions on which products might work well for me whilst I am wearing the harness?
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33795
a little pricey but it offers stimulation for you.
also these are worth a look at
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/double-strap-ons/
in conjuction with a vibe on your clit perhaps?
hope this helps!
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Thank you
I would say buy a decent little clit vibe and wedge it between the harness and you , should do the trick
SquirtyPanda wrote:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33795
a little pricey but it offers stimulation for you.
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that looks lovely!! 
Meet Me Under The Stars wrote:
I would like some advice before I buy a harness and dildo! Complete novice and I want to suprise my husband for Christmas and buy a harness to use on him.
I have to have clit stimulation to cum, has anyone got any suggestions on which products might workq well for me whilst I am wearing the harness?
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32202
I'd recommend this and I agree its wonderful if you can share the enjoyment.
Grumpygit87 wrote:
I would say buy a decent little clit vibe and wedge it between the harness and you , should do the trick
Thank you
Gentle giant wrote:
Meet Me Under The Stars wrote:
I would like some advice before I buy a harness and dildo! Complete novice and I want to suprise my husband for Christmas and buy a harness to use on him.
I have to have clit stimulation to cum, has anyone got any suggestions on which products might workq well for me whilst I am wearing the harness?
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32202
I'd recommend this and I agree its wonderful if you can share the enjoyment.
Thank you, and yes it is always a bonus if you can both get your rocks off!
I have this little clit vibe, and it is fantatsic. As it is so petite it may be able to fit between you both, it is also super powerful for it's size :) xx
Do you need really strong clit vibrations or are milder ones okay?
If you have a little bullet toy, you could pop that underneath the harness and it should sit quite nicely in your vulva :) I love my Tango http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30320
Hands-free ones might work too!
Eva: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34258
We-Vibe Sync: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36926
Vibrating panties (although the vibrations are usually weaker and meant to tease): http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/butterfly-vibrators-vibrating-knickers/
What about cock-rings? A vibrating one might be a simple way to incorporate clit stimulation into a strap-on.
We've just bought a Lovehoney Double Wow Strpless strap on and my wife was very impressed.
As we're in our late 60's she no longer has the Kegel muscle tone to hold it in place for long but she uses it along with a pair of tight fitting (undersized|) harness briefs and that does the trick.
We have a harness that means the base of the dildo sits on my clit naturally. If I want clit stimulation, I uncover my clit before loading myself into the harness, and while I'm shagging his ass, I get rolling orgasms from my clit being worked by the end of the dildo.
There was one time I remember he thought I'd had so many orgasms that I'd lose interest in his ass pounding. I didn't. That's the sacrifice I made! Haha.
I have used a we vibe before and can vouch that they are good for clit stim.