Hello, I am 19 years old and bought Silencer 2.0 after reading so many good reviews. It is my first toy and I was a little intimidated by the sight but tried it nonetheless.
Although the vibrations were wonderful and I was aroused, I didn't quite reach the orgasm and felt disappointed. I do not want to invest in other sex toys for now so do you guys have any ideas on how or what should I do to use Silencer 2.0?
Thank you!
Hello and welcome 🙂
I'm afraid the forum is closing for a week from tomorrow (29th), so your timing is a little unlucky. 🙂 All being well, we'll get a shiny new one on the 4th August though, so you won't have to wait too long for some answers. 👍
I'm not sure which toy the Silencer 2.0 is? Is it this one:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38263
Unfortunately every body is different so everyone can't like everything equally, and you might find some toys just won't work for you. But on the upside this one sounds like it's okay, just not mind-blowing, which is good as it gives you something to work with. 🙂
I think the best advice I've read on here is to start with the basics, so clear some time and a place for yourself with no distractions, and make sure you can relax and be comfortable. Getting yourself in the right headspace is helpful too, so think sexy thoughts, imagine some arousing fantasies, that sort of thing. Porn can help, though some people prefer reading stories instead (literotica is a good site), or listening to audiobooks. Once you feel in to it then start touching yourself, but don't go straight for the good stuff right away. 🙂 Take the time to explore yourself as you may be surprised what turns you on (ears, neck, thighs, etc). Once again, when you're ready, add the toy to the mix. Most can also be used anywhere on the body too, so it's worth trying it in a few places before moving downtown.
Most women (though not all) need some good clit stimulation to orgasm, so I'd explore that area first. It's a sensitive bundle of nerves, and moving the vibrations even a mm or so can make a world of difference. If you're curious I'd recommend sitting in front of a mirror so you can get a really good look at what's going where. 👍
Internal vibrations are good too. Mrs Chimp prefers a good clit toy (vibration needed) plus a firm internal toy (vibration optional).
I'm rushing a bit to get a reply in before they shutter the place for the upgrade, but I hope this is helpful to you. 🙂👍
The one that Ian mentioned above also didn't do much for me if that's the one you have. I'll throw a curveball and mention the following: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31790 It's still my go to vibrator, I find it actually more powerful than a lot of the USB rechargeable ones I have! Hope you find something you eventually like :)
Hello! Toys can definitely be intimidating at first and it can take a bit of time to figure out what works for you, but it’s definitely a fun process! The main thing that helps me reach orgasm is clitoral stimulation- and the more power the better is my personal preference.
I really recommend this: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=41329 . I was sent it earlier this year to test, and I turn to it more often than any other toy. There’s plenty of settings to try out, and it’s pretty non intimidating. A bullet is great for clit stim, and this is rechargeable too, taking away the inconvenience of batteries. A little water based lube works great alongside it too! This is my favourite in case you want a recommendation: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31586 .
I hope that this helps you out- it’s such a great feeling to find out what works best for you!