Sounds good Thank you for the advice. We are still trying. Key word ive seen is relax. And take our time. So will deffo do this. We always douche and lots of.lube 😊
Relaxing, and having patience will go a long way.
I've not been into anal play very long but I've recently been able to take a pretty girthy (7inch circumference) dildo after a couple of months.
Basically, nothing stretches as such but you get more tolerant and used to the sensation where it no longer stings or aches, etc.
Start off slow and small. Use plenty of lube, and breathe! Slow your breathing right down and you'll begin to relax.
A Butt Plug is always great for warming up, but eventually you'll find you can take something at 5.5inch (circumference) with virtually no-warming up but all of this takes time