Tips Needed Single Straight Guy Anal Toys

So bassically I’m single and straight so I don’t have a partner to ‘play’ with and I’ve bought a couple of anal toys and have way overestimated my anal game, I currently have a curved flexable prostate massager but I can’t seem to get it to stay pointing onto my prostate. I also have a 10 inch suction cup life like lover dildo (yes way overstepped myself here as a beginner). I’m struggling at the moment to ‘keep em in’ and go further I’m not sure exactly how far I can get it in but I don’t think it’s more than 7 inches before I hit some sort of wall I’m not sure if it’s mental or physical or both as I can feel an odd sensation that feels scary but good. Bottom line is I really need some help with keeping these in as they don’t tapper down and going further as well as using fleshlights and ‘pocket pussies’ whilst using anal toys. On top of this as I’m 18 I don’t have endless funds but I’m looking to get more toys for both penis and anal pleasure but want an anal toy that will stay in while I use penis toys, but will still bring me pleasure (to prostate and that), the end goal is really a HFO but if people have any recommendations of toys that goes with anal toys that can bring new heights of pleasure to the penis I’m very open to suggestions(please remember limited funds probably around 50 mark maybe a tad more but under is preferable). I understand this is a bombardment of questions and info but please try as you can to answer all is very appreciated.

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Around 7 inches is where you hit your second ‘hole’. Push on into that and things can really get intense. I have the 9 inch lifelike which easily reaches to spot if I go b_lls deep, but I wish I had bought the 10 inch for the extra girth. Respect to you if you can handle that as a ‘beginner’
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First major props for being a beginner and getting 7 inches in. In terms of toys to recommend the booty buddy plug is curved so stimulates the p-spot and is small so good for a beginner, obviously smaller dildos.

Now on the the tips to improve what you have going, make sure your relaxed when you start. Perhaps watch some porn and play a bit before doing. Next I always lube both the toy and myself and i’m not a beginner but I always go with 1 finger then 2 to start as warm up and I go in circles. My next tip is very much try different positions for example I have the LH high roller and because the tip rotates the only way to keep it in is to sit on it. So I slip it in and sit, also can lean back but not to far.

Last don’t be afraid to go very slow and add lots of lube, push in a bit and work around then go deeper etc. Hopefully this helps.

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For a toy to stay in, you need one with a wide body, narrow neck, hence why many butt plugs are tear drop shaped, the narrow neck allows your anal muscles to fully close around the neck of the toy. Many prostate massagers simply aren’t designed that way. I think aneros are a bit different, but I don’t have experience with those so can’t comment from experience.

A dildo isn’t designed to stay in either, its for active play, thrusting etc. For prostate stimulation, you don’t need to go beyond a few inches in length, but I do get the desire to go full depth, the sensation is intense. I’ve gone balls deep on a king cock 8 inch, but that was at the end of some extended play.

Spend time finding out what you like, for me its girth, the feeling of being stretched and the challenge of accommodating a large toy is intoxicating, but each person is different.

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I can strongly recommend any butt plug. Specifically those that are long and have a large head so you get that full feeling. But not all of them hit the prostate. I am young too and have big issues with funds just like you so I feel your pain.
Do you know what the girth of your current 10" dildo is? If it’s around the 5" circumference you could go for these anal beads or if these are too large any other anal beads are awesome for tickling the prostate and stay in nicely while playing. I have even taken these anal beads out shopping they feels so sturdy.

Make sure you always warm up before using anal toys so you don’t do any damage or hurt yourself! Heaps of lube helps so much so don’t be afraid to use heaps! Lube applicators are great. I used them when I first got them and then didn’t use for a while Until now and WOW they are epic!
And with dildos they aren’t really meant to stay put. More for moving in and out, there are some that have the suction base which can help you sit on them to stay in but anal beads or butt plugs will stay in far better. See what you like!

As a little side note on material. I am looking into glass as it is cheap and super slippery and you can change temperature for different sensations. It is also rigid so feels like there is more in you because it doesn’t give. I have a metal large plug which is awesome but glass is cheaper and similar in properties.

Let us know how you get on!

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Best tip is to relax - although easier said than done. Take your time and don’t put too much pressure on yourself, it’ll happen when it does :wink:

I’ve heard it on here a few times; you need to train your hole as it’s a muscle.

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Thank you all very much for the tips and recommendations, I have yet to try as the house hasn’t been free enough for me to ‘take the time’ but the moment I can I assure you I’ll be giving them a try :wink: Senator, @TDR thanks a bunch for the recommendations looking at them I’ve actually added the beads to a wishlist as I will definitely be getting one at some point depends whether or not I can wait to save the money for the more expensive one :smile: @Enchantress29 I’ll try the ‘Warm up’ stuff a bit more seriously as it’s suction cup I have tried to sit but those last three inches are really terrifying and I’m a bit scared of slipping :confounded: All of this has been quite eye opening for me I thought it would make me question my sexuality a bit but the complete opposite happened (in a good way) and its just brought more interest into pleasure, thanks a lot again for all the help! Anything else will still be appreciated!
JR.

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I completely get the whole filling part if I somehow strike rich I’ll be looking to get more girth over length toys, at this point it’s all about the satisfaction of being filled almost (and the P spot). Thanks for the advice!
JR.

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This is epic news. So glad we could help and I think you will really love the anal beads!

At the start of my anal adventure I invested in aneros toys. I found they thaught me much about my body and how to enjoy the pleasure of anal stimulation, also the importance of relaxing and taking it slowly.