Hi. I feel a bit if a fraud writing this comment as I'm having trouble squirting myself at the moment but it is something I've been able to do in the past
Our marriage had a bit if a wobble due to some personal circumstances and we didn't have sex for 18 months, we're just no getting back I to the swing of things but my G Spot is playing a little hard to get!
I think what sensualFire meant by 'control' is because the female ejaculation comes from the urethra, the same tube you pee from, when a woman is close to squirting it gives the sensation that you need to pee, because if this many woman 'hold back' and therefore effectively don't allow themselves to squirt
I was 'researching' squirting and 'how to...' The other day, most information says to use your index and middle dinging in a 'come here' motion but I found a clip on Redtube I think. I can't find it now so can't post the link but I'll do my best to describe it, from what I can remember I think this is closer to the way my husband has done it in the past
Ok so after a fair bit of foreplay, you want the whole area to be full with blood and swollen from stimulation
Using your middle and ring finger sit to the side of her, so your shoulder is in line with her hips, slip your two fingers in and point them upwards and forwards with your index finger and little fingers pointing down on the outside, either side of her vagina. The with your two middle fingers applying pressure to the front wall of her vagina start to move your hand up and down getting faster and applying more pressure as the go,
I haven't had a chance to put this to the test yet as I got my period! However hopefully I'll be able to let you know by the weekend if it works for me
The other thing to bear in mind is sometimes you can try too hard, just have fun and enjoy eachother if it's meant to be it'll happen, I know for myself when we've tried to squirt is the time it's least likely to happen, so just work this into foreplay rather that it being a separate issue you're trying to crack x