Tips to spice up solo play

I’m very boring when it comes to masturbation. It tends to be under my duvet, on my back and i just have one vibrator at the moment. I read literotica or watch lesbian porn and fantasise about being with a woman. And that’s it.

Any tips on spicing it up to improve solo play and orgasm? I guess I’m not very confident with my body and I don’t have a lot of money for toys, would love to try nipple clamps but that will have to wait for a bit as I’m skint!

Thanks in advance :blush:

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Clothe pegs make for a cheap nipple clamp???

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Change of location? Assuming you have the house to yourself from time to time you could masturbate in the living room or something like that. Or try masturbating in the shower.

Outdoor masturbation? Obviously somewhere secluded where you are unlikely to be see and not going to cause distress to anyone. Just make sure you are safe and have an exit route planned or some way of defending yourself if you do attract unwanted attention.

Sexting, phone sex or masturbating on camera with someone?

You can get nipple suckers really cheap. I used rubber ones that I squeeze and the suction attaches them to my nipples. It makes them super sensitive! (Yes some men enjoy nipple play too! :slight_smile:)

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I am a massive lover of adding things to my solo play. I record myself and take pictures all the time which gets me super horny.
I do also dress up. I always perhaps put some porn or listen to something in the background.
You can use things around the house to spice up things like food for example.

I agree with the change of location. Perhaps another room or go all out and find somewhere quiet outside for example. When I’m going on my walks I’m busy scoping places out that I could cheekily have a play.

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It’s your body, sometimes that’s the best way. Have a think about what you enjoy or want to try and go for it.

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I’m the same, on the bed. But it’s my favourite place, I do masturbate in the shower, and on the sofa, but I feel more comfortable on the bed if it’s a long session. I do like to take photos/videos and send them to hubby while he’s at work and he’ll send me photos too, sometimes he’ll phone me for phone sex. And sometimes that’s all I do, imagine my hubby :smirk:
You do whatever feels comfortable for you, try different places in your home if possible, also in front of a mirror, that can be a turn on.

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I find it nice to have a wank day. Have the house to yourself and spend all day naked. Have a little play in various parts of the house if you have a garden that is not overlooked, a nice play in the sun is very horny. Watch a bit of porn even webcam if u feel bold. Edge yourself to orgasm then hold back. You finally feel so horny the orgasm is intense… if you cannot afford expensive toys then improvise, there are many ways to help bring yourself off.

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Don’t think you have to spend there are plenty of items around the house you can use as alternatives, clothes pegs are great as nipple clamps and empty plastic bottles can be used as suckers if you remove the top and squeeze the air out then place over the nipple they suck your nipple in as they try to reinflate, heightens the nipple sensitivity before you peg them :smiling_imp::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: also don’t be afraid of using the vibratory anywhere and everywhere, experiment with it and enjoy nothing is out of bounds when solo as you are always in control and you don’t have to worry about it being wrong, especially as the things you probably thought were wrong will most likely turn you on the most :wink::kissing_heart::kissing_heart::kissing_heart:

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Listen to the ladies, but differl positions / places / dress up in sexy undies. Don’t need expensive toys…

I’m quite similar to you: in bed, on my back with a vibrator or fingers. Now that I have a few more toys, I do mix it up a bit but I usually still do the same thing!

Keep a look out for nipple clamps in the sale - they are often in the sale and you can pick them up very cheaply if you wait. Clothes pegs are a free option but I’ll add a warning :warning: the good quality wooden ones are very painful! :sweat_smile:

Have you tried edging? That’s something that I do quite a bit, especially if I have a bit more time. It doesn’t involve a change in position, location or a new toy, just bring yourself as close as possible to orgasm without actually orgasming, stop what you’re doing or reduce the intensity a bit so you come back from the peak and then build up again and repeat for as long as you can (or want). It gives a really strong orgasm when you finally allow yourself to have one!

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An electric toothbrush works wonders for both male and female

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I agree with @Kitty-Cat01 edging is really good and the more it builds the better the orgasm.

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A glass dildo is good…I like mine chilled but you can warm them up in hot water too.
Pretty reasonably priced too.

A butt plug inserted and a dildo …add a bullet to the mix…:crazy_face:

Again all reasonably priced. Keep it mixed and it won’t samey…some household objects with a bit of imagination work well too.

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God yes forgot about that definitely worth a go every now and again, definitely gives me a smile to be proud of

I love to watch my husband get off. Also solo male porn videos of cum compilations.

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@Closeted
When your masterbating, keep track of what your thinking about. Think about what your fantasizing about all the way until you get off.
If something keeps coming to mind that helps get you off, try to make that a reality.

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Trying to find different unusual places and ways to do it out of the house

Watching porn always does it for me :wink::yum:. I also have an ‘outside’ kink and going out, just off a not heavily used public footpath, lying down and doing it there gets me off straight away! The thrill of getting caught or possibly watched makes me proper horney!
Just be careful out on your own, I’m pretty street wise and had a tougher life than most, I listen to my gut or un easy feeling i randomly get and act when my body says something isn’t right, I’m hypha vigilant and am aware of what’s around me, so please be careful. It is well worth it though!
Don’t forget your pocket sized clit stimulator! :wink::star_struck: (if your a female)