So is it essential to use lube with the spinning/pumping male masterubaters? As Im going to buy my first one and Id rather not use lube as its all very messy and takes longer to get started, plus the cleaning up after
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We have 3 Fleshlights, 2 Strokers, 1 Arcwave and 3 masturbators - we recently got to review a self-lubricating stroker which just needed water adding and it was a struggle getting inside at the start.
When using lube we have never had that problem. In my experience a water-based lube is essential and necessary.
Hope this helps 
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You know the machine they use to peel potatoes? I have this vision of what a cock would look like after going through one of those would actually be the result if you don’t use lube.
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Yeah they do look pretty brutle even on the lowest setting, but Im just thinking the silicon is really soft etc?..
It reminds me of a documentary on tv “101 Embarrassing Sexual Accidents”..This 1 man put his dick in a old style vacuum hoover and it mangled,chopped it up.. outch..
The opening/holes of the masturbators Ive seen look way thicker/wider than my dick…?
You can always try @Speedy45. It doesn’t need to be a lot of lube, even a small amount. Reduced friction, less uncomfortable and more enjoyable.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/advice/lubes-wellness/beginners-guide-to-lube.html
Lovehoney has a blog which might be helpful
I’ve got just the one spinning and stroking toy and lube is absolutely essential. I’m in no way bragging, but most of these things seem to be made for smaller chaps. Without lube I struggle to get in and it won’t move once I am. So you probably won’t know until you have it but having a load of lube available certainly won’t harm.
Besides, silicone is rarely perfectly smooth. It rubs. So even though its soft its going to hurt given the speeds we’re talking about.
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I have two male masturbators, one spinning option and the other a sucking and vibrating system, I find lubricant both enhances the experience and eases the access to the toys, and as has said previously the openings seem to be quite small!
Yes I would always use lube on them or some water if it’s water proof as all the moving motions will cause friction if dry!
From using several different versions, lubrication is essential. You will just get friction , no real true effect of the toy and likely they won’t spin or move without the lubricants to help.
The ones Ive seen the opening looks quite wide maybe even too wide and Im I wouldnt say exactly thick when hard. and no idea if it will reach the tongue as thats a awfully long way up aswel
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You should be using lube with any sleeve type toy. Be nice to your dick!
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There are a lot where the opening is too thin. But even those that aren’t, you have all the silicone prongs, nodules and whatever else in the middle that converge to a narrow point. Having them spinning around and flaying your once perky looking tool without lube is no fun.
Also, many of the pumping ones ( ignoring the more recent generation ) are not very deep as they have the mechanics and electronics at the end furthest away from you. Mine is only about 4inches deep and moves about an inch. Enough to feel great so long as you don’t succumb to the urge to sink balls deep.
I’ve ordered 2 masturbators and 1 normal fleshlight(for quick and easy) and the 1 masturbator was free …Why are the all so darn fast, even at level 1 they look scary?
I had the same complaint! Too many toys are based on fast and faster with no lead up.
The spinning ones, lube is essential.
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And Ive notice you can’t get ones that just “Thrusts”, they spin at the same time as thrusting 
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So I received the toys and Im a bit disappointed… I tried the fleshlight first and that makes the head of my dick too sensitive to cum as I keep having to stop… And 1 of the male masturbaters I tried gave me a fracton more pleasure but it didnt make me cum as the spinning was too fast so all the sensations blended into 1 if that makes sense… Im yet to try out the other masturbater, but so far I m quite disappointed
Now with being a virgin I would of thought these would of got me off with in seconds but no.. And if a pussy makes my head feel overly sensitive, I’ll stay away from pussy’s thankyou very much 
.. But the problem is when I wank using my hand, I never touch the bare head with my hand/fingers, the forskin makes me cum. So when doing it with the fleshlight the bare head is being stroked/rubbed with the lumbs and nobbles of inside the fleshlight and the head isnt use to that, plus I think the forskin is kept held back all the time inside the fleshlight??.. I soo hope a real pussy feels more pleasurable than a fleshlight??
I have a spinning and thrusting one and to be honest not the biggest fan. It’s not that it’s bad but the spinning just isn’t natural and feels nothing like a pussy. I also have The Wing by Cyberskin and absolutely love it. It’s just thrusting and no spinning.
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I have just managed to cum and quite quickly too with the free male masturbator that I was sent with the ÂŁ40 one which I dont think its as good the free one.
But yeah the spinning is kind of bollox. Because when you think of a male masturbator, you think of the same that you do with your hand but you have it done for you, like someone giving you a handjob.
The Wing looks awesome, very expensive though
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I would say you should definitely use lube with any toy. As well as the extra pleasure it gives it’s essential to stop you getting sore. Water based lube is so easy to clean and you will have to clean your mess off it anyway. I use liquid silk and definitely worth it