Hi all. I have a maybe not so common fantasy of being someones toilet slave which is pretty much taking over my life atm… What is the best way to bring that into a conversation. And what or where is the best way to find someone with similar interest. I keep it to myself none of my friends know but its all i think about now
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@Cityboy2003 welcome to the club
I know it as toilet training - but it’s a no no for me
I’m happy to give golden showers but toilet training is well too far
Good luck finding someone who is into this
Hiii!! I think what you’re referring to is a fetish called Coprophilla, it’s not the most common thing in the world but that doesn’t mean it isn’t normal
I think the best way about going about your fantasy is to be open and honest. If you have a partner I suggest you talk to them, let them know the way you feel/why you have this fantasy. Don’t be too pushy or forceful, let them know that they have the choice and they don’t have to engage in it if they don’t want to. You can also try starting small maybe by doing things like golden showers or facesitting/powerplay/humiliation as a compromise.
If you don’t have a partner then maybe try and find some online forums/communities of people with the same kink, the internet is massive- you’re bound to find someone 
I used to be with someone who was VERY much into scat and whatnot, which I was always on the receiving end of. It wasn’t my cup of tea but I did enjoy the humiliation and submissive side of it, so there’s definitely others who probably feel the same.
I think that’s all you can really do to be honest, be respect and honest about your kink. Other than that good luck!! I hope you’re able to fulfill you fantasises soon ((:
No definitely not scat , that doesnt interest me 
just wee and the feel of domination. Tha kyou for your reply and advice though 
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Ohhh! That’s even easier then, I think golden showers are a very common kink, you’ll be able to find someone easily hehe (;
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Fingers crossed:)
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Welcome to the forum
Your fantasy is common enough around here for many members to give advice and positive reinforcement. The last conversation I found in the search is from 2023 and it’s here. While that was for a couple, it’s a case of as a single person either using more adult oriented dating sites where you can mention your interest in golden showers. Or if you are dipping your toe in to test the waters so to speak using a more adult service with someone who’s already experienced. There are clubs that hold events. You just need to investigate, there still seems to be several over England that have periodic events for you to think about unless you are more global!
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Kinda new to me this term, are you able to expand more on what being a toilet slave is for you?
I was thinking the same. Is being a ‘toilet slave’ just a fetish for being pissed on? Confused.
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Golden showers and having a Dom who will use it in play from how the conversation in the tread has gone.
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You don’t need another person to start your experience with this. There is such a thing as delayed release, where you drink and then wait until the last second when you can’t hold it in any longer and you have to go. Either in your clothes or on yourself and be your own Dom.
Or do you wait at the door with a hand towel to dry after someone has been to the toilet 
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Aha! Makes more sense now 
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