Its always the man being to small… has anyone actually got a very large vagina and actually had a penis they dont feel. Normal size but your just to big. Dont mean that in a bad way! Could be beacause of child birth or something else.
My OH used to be very tight and I’m definitely not the biggest but since child birth it’s definitely much much looser
I used to struggle feeling down there. Not due to sizing etc. I think more due to a trauma and me blocking out feeling.
But since I have been okay.
You could try kegel exercises or if you are into anal play, use a hook whilst having sex. That you will likely feel.
Or add extra fun toys into the mix.
Using a butt plug during PIV will make you vagina feel tighter.
I once saw somewhere there’s a fetish some women have for experiencing child birth or rather the sensation of pushing something big out their vagina, so they basically put really large objects up there to stretch them out and push out
Since having children I can feel the difference in the before and after vagina I’ve ordered a kegal ball from LH to wear to try help tighten up the pelvic floor muscles
My wife is nice and tight she has not had a baby as we were not able to due to fertility issues. We have a threesome with a female friend who has had a baby and hers feels much looser than my wife.
After 8 kids and all vaginal births I can def feel the difference inderstanably , OH is not small so it’s not an issue but for me and he hasn’t said anything .