We'd like to do an updated version of the Top 20 Sexy Phrases to Talk Dirty in Bed, but with a slightly different slant. Not so much what to say when you're already hot and horny, but what to say to get your lover in the mood and start the process of seduction.
And here is where I plunder the brains of the Orgasm Army . What words, phrases and suggestions help you get you going?
I'm nto really subtle to be honest. If i want to get my partner going i usually just kiss and fondle them and then ask for sex! so will be watching this thread with interest.
I find one of the best ways to get a man interested is to make it all about me. External Media
"I had a really naughty dream last night."
"I've been playing with my favourite toy."
"When we were at the restaurant today, the server had such great hands. I couldn't help but imagine what they might be capable of."
"I could really do with a nice hard f*** about now."
Yep, that work on my hubby too!
In fact anything works... he's getting worse/better (depends on my mood) the older he gets. I thought that libido was supposed to slow down as you get olderExternal Media
My OH loves it when I tell her what I want to do to her in no uncertain terms and how I love every pore of her body when she's restrained by her wrists, stretched out from head to toe all hot, wet and oiled up! I wouldn't say there's any set line though, it just comes out differently every time and seems to do the trick! SG
I can't say I usually have to do much persuading.. But if I want to make my intentions clear, I like to keep it pretty simple. "I want you" is a favourite, or "I want to fuck you"
offering a back massage is a good way to start as well.
We're quite blunt... Generally don't initiate sex verbally, it's more physical... Grabbing somewhere, kissing somewhere...
Occasionally I'll say "Drop 'em" - makes it clear I want to give him a BJ...
There's a character in Little Britain that say's to another "I'd like to buy you a drink" in the creepiest, perviest way possible, and Hubs knows it creeps me out, so he'll do an impression, by which point we're giggling and in the mood to 'play' (maybe that's an 'in' joke?!)
"Fancy a rumage in my toy box" has a double meaning! - Neither of us tries to be sexy and seductive, there's generally a silly comment followed by *the look* and we're off!
We're not so much verbal but more of a physical thing. If it is verbal then i will say "you coming to bed" followed by "the look". But for him, its all physcial.
Im trying to open him up to this abit more though, i think it will just take time.
