Toy talk

So, I feel incredibly lucky to have a partner who is supportive and understanding with my sexual frustration and needs.

In the past my partners have been very jealous of me having toys and they were not allowed in the bedroom at all.

He just asks why I have so many :joy::joy:

Told him we just need to review them all together…

Anyone else in the same boat?

Also, in terms of couple toys I absolutely love the we vibe and my trusty wands. What are your go to’s?

And… How many toys would you say are too many?

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We have a trailer load of toys. She has one that is her go to, a small bullet with a pointed end and pretty powerful. Not that other toys are not fun but when she has to come that one is it.

Why would a guy be intimidated by a toy? Obviously your satisfaction and pleasure is not high on their list and why they are Exes!

I have met some very nice women that won’t even talk about sex etc…No thanks. Hard pass.

Any man who is jealous of a piece of plastic needs to have a word with himself.

A good lover (as I am) would welcome the fact (as I do) that his partner thinks sexually and independently. :slight_smile:

It is up to her what she puts in or on herself, and there is no such thing as too many sex toys.

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My profile picture is the dresser where I keep all my sex toys…since taking that picture that dresser is full and my sex toys are starting to over fill on top of the dresser.

I…probably have too many sex toys but there’s just soooo many cool and neat ones…

I MUST HAVE THEM ALL.

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Too many toys? Cannot calculate an answer: question makes no sense :wink:

I’m sorry to hear that your exes were jealoius, they sound deeply insecure and such men would have no business being around me.

My husband knows that I have a lot of toys and he shares them with me sometimes. He’s my Dominant, so, I don’t really get to decide when I’m ā€œdoneā€ :wink:

As for my favourites, it has to be the Lovehoney Pocket Pal, or maybe a wand :slight_smile:

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It’s a hobby! It’s like Panini Football Cards, only with fewer swaps :rofl:

So, my husband was fine with them when he first found out and wanted to see how I used them.
So, this is what we did. One toy at a time. I used each one on me, and then at some point later, so did he. We kept a spreadsheet (of course we did), and he took great pleasure in pushing me with them. That man seriously knows how to make me cum.

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Usually too many is when you run out of hiding places to put them all :joy:

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I just love sex toys and playing with them with my partner.
I can’t understand any man that doesn’t love the idea of his partner using a toy on herself and having an orgasm.
Sexy, smiley, fun :heart_eyes:

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I love watching my wife sucking her realistic dildo’s and pushing them inside herself.When she gets vocal it’s even better,telling me how lovely his cock feels inside her and am i enjoying the show.Likewise she loves to see me sucking a cock as she pegs me with another.Toy’s are awesome.

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I have ten toys now, and two more on the way. Is that too many? Fortunately I have a partner who actively encourages I use them as often as I can.

Use as many toys are you want. Why would we care? We have tons of them.

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Yep, we have tons too. I buy most of them but H buys toys for us both too.

Our sex life improved hugely after we introduced them into our sex life a few years ago. Firstly, just using toys on me and then buying some boys toys for him too.

I cannot see any cause for jealousy at all. It’s all about enhancing both our pleasure.

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Yes. My SO often ask ā€œwhy so manyā€ and I respond with ā€œwhy not?ā€ Or sometimes I gag her. Like when I buy a new gag. :grinning_face:

I absolutely LOVE using toys on her!

Can you have to many ? I have made my own in the past too :grin:

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I don’t think you can have too many, there’s many different toys and many different purposes and hey it’s cool to have things in all different colours. Variety’s the spice of life after all :blush:

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I have a small collection so far. My partner is encouraging me to explore what I like and would like to try so I’m sure the collection is going to grow.

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anything that i can cum hands free with. mostly vibrating stroking toys that get close to the feeling of being given a blowjob or handjob

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