Trans porn

Wife caught me watching trans porn, it’s fantasy not real world she now thinks I’m gay how can I explain that I’m not

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Try talking to her, it can be embarrassing however I found explaining is the way forward.
Porn was very detrimental to our relationship and now I dont watch it giving my Oh the extra confidence by letting her lock me away.

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Tell her what it is that turns you on about what you were watching.

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Thanks for reply, I think watching to much of any porn has been very destructive to our sexlife. I’ve abstained all week and libido has raised Hopefully she will understand the trans porn is just curiosity and fantasy

I think it’s that it’s taboo and exciting.its always very fem actors but with that extra not that it’s what I want in real life

Welcome to the forum dude, we all like and enjoy variety in porn and just cause you watched trans doesn’t mean anything. I’d reassure your wife your not gay and was just intrigued by it. Maybe even invite her to watch some too with you :wink:

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Is it even taboo? I wouldn’t say it is, its a category like BBW (I can say this because I am one).
I watch gay porn, I’m a woman. It doesn’t mean I want to have sex with gay men.

Maybe you want your wife to peg you, that still doesn’t make you gay or bi.
I’ve had a threesome that included a woman and he had sex with each other, still not a lesbian - though I would say I’m heteroflexible.

Porn is porn, it doesn’t decide your sexuality.

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What is the problem with Trans Porn here :man_shrugging:

Sorry for being flippant a little, but hey really, in now way does it mean you are gay / bi / TV … just good to know to you at least look over the fence - most likely nothing more.

R xx

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I didn’t say there was a problem with trans porn, I questioned if it was taboo as I don’t feel that it is.

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I would suggest the issue here is she “caught” you.

Just be honest with her and open up communication about it, I’m sure she’ll come round and see that it doesnt mean you are gay.

Had it been something you discussed before she caught you things may have turned out differently and not as though your hiding some big dirty secret.

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I think “taboo” depends on the individual. Some things might be casual and normalised to one person, but taboo to someone else. Just explain to her that you were looking out of curiosity, and that it doesn’t make you gay or bi.

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Had a big discussion about it she’s understanding but hurt it’s more of the fact I been watching porn and neglected her I reassured it’s just my fantasies in solo time and not a reflection on what I do in real life. A week off porn and had amazing long fun together last night. Think she still has doubts but could be a good thing it happened for us, thanks for advice everyone will keep you posted

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