Turn Ons: thick wavy/curly hair; shapely arms and legs and a good round bum - in short, a good figure, of whatever shape and size; shaved pussy and pits; openness about sex and a good sense of humour about it too; intelligence and willingness to experiment; good kisser; long, slow lube-y handjobs; mild exhibitionism (amateur porn and perhaps webcamming); hold-up stockings, especially worn with corsets! Oh I do love a tight corset - on a woman I mean, not on me,
Turn Offs: stubble! Hairy is fine, and so is smooth-shaven, but stubble is a passion-killer; skinny arms with veins sticking out (I really do get the shudders); gum-chewing; garter belts and suspenders; anything to do with bondage.