So I am writing an erotic story and in every chapter I try
to make the sex jut a little different to try and avoid the overall collection
of chapters getting to stagnant. Long story short (though it will be full
length if and when i post it) trying not to give to much away my main character
gets herself into trouble at school and hinting before hand she wanted to try a
little bdsm, she is naturally quite submissive anyway, her step father uses this
opportunity to play with her in that way. And as much as I have searched the forums
I couldn’t find much on what an average first session is like.
Please could any of the doms please please pretty please give
me a rough idea, I could take a shot in the dark but I would rather here it from
people in the know. I could have read some of the stories on the site and I have
a pair of bdsm themed books of short story’s Yes sir and Yes ma’am, both really
good reads by the way’ but the books I have are mostly not first sessions and I
really don’t want to borrow anyone else’s plot or story ark.
Any and all explanations are greatly welcome and as always I
am thankful for all the love and support.
Maybe you should add me as a friend? So many discussions to be had, so many ideas!
Yay I made a new friend.
Hope the writing is going well, if you need an angle on bloodsports I am your girl.
Writing is going slowly but surely. No idea what bloodsports is are (and looking at your profile picture i shudder to think) but if you could explain in more detail i may be able to add it in. Ps love the sword, have been walking the path of the warrior for a long time. Can you cut off any of your other half's clothes with it.
Bloodsports involves the use of blood during play/a session/and or during sex. It is very specific and there are major health factors. I have only practiced this with very close partners,that I have been with for years and trust implicitly, and after after we both had a blood check. The obvious health risks are far too great.
It is a huge turn on to tie someone up and use a blade on them, the feeling of trust and power is intoxicating. It´s probably for me as much of an artistic high to see the blood than a fetish, it is not something I can do everyday , but maybe one or two times a year but it is SO worth the wait.
I use my knives and swords in almost all my Dom sessions, but as you said, only to cut off clothing, bindings or just to threaten.
It is such a turn on, really, really does it for me. xx
The bloodsport is not something i would incorporate into a story unless it was about vamps but it is certainly interesting to read about. The blades i might but for what i had in mind it is not the right story for it.
To reiterate on my initial question after a couple chooses a safe word and gets the boundary talk over with ie how far each is willing to go, how start to finish does a typical session go. I am probably on the wrong line but i thought domination was like fighting (i know how that sounds but hear me out). No matter what style a warrior uses karate or whatever else the basic premise is based on the same ideas for example a strong stance and similar forms of attack and defence. So to the use of bondage and light smacks with a hand or basic paddle before moving onto the more extreme forms. I know there is more to it than that but go with me here.
There are one or two love honey products that have given me ideas about how it would go ( the Bondage Boutique Tie & Tease Bundle and the basic nipple suckers) and i doubt that the story will have more than one instance of bdsm in it but i just want it to be as good as possible. Perhaps i should just wright a basic bdsm story post it and get feedback and go from there instead but i will wait and see what you or any one else has to say first. Thank you for taking the time to contribute.
I understand that a doms style of domination is subject to the individual like musical taste and i have been thinking about what i would be like as dom but as i am naturally submissive, not to the point that i sacrafice my own desires however, i am having a bit if a time with it. any way sorry to ramble and again thank you for the help. Hear from you soon.