Hi All!
Whilst experimenting a few years back with light bondage we bought an under bed restraint kit thingy. More recently, after 8 years together we were in a bit of a rut of “lets just have a quickie” and so have been making a conscious effort of making an event of it and so the under bed restraint is back in situ.
Is there a trick to getting these to not come loose? We have found that with a bit of squirming (as you do) the straps will either go closer together, giving you some movement back in your arms/legs, or they will slip around the corner from the top/bottom of the bed to the side and result in the same.
Just wondering if there is a way you can prevent them from moving/coming slack. We have a divan bed with an eve mattress (so there is plenty of weight on the straps under the bed.
Side note. would an underbed restraint work if you used it around a door??
Thanks in Advance 
As someone with a set-up almost identical to your own, one of the easiest (and stupidest 
) solutions for us was to wrap the strap around the bar at the top and bottom of the mattress frame. Hopefully, with the weight of the mattress (and you/your partner!) on top, that should keep things in place.
Good luck to you both, and please let us know if this helps
Thanks @Tenshadesandme
I will give this a go next time, around the legs of the headboard. Annoyingly as it is a divan bed there is nothing at the foot of the bed to wrap it around 
The mattress has handles on the sides I thought about threading it through, but
a) they are too far towards the middle
b) you then have to faff around moving the sheets etc…
Maybe I should just bolt some eyelets in the corners of the frame at the foot of the bed… Would only be a couple of £ and would solve the issue 
Ahh, that changes things. In that case, and if all else has failed, yes, a couple of good eye hooks is the most popular solution and you could easily hide them if you put them lower down beneath the mattress level. Just make sure you get sturdy ones - you don’t want them firing out of the frame while you’re both getting busy
I have made my own over time
Top of the bed - just hidden by the headboard is 2 loops attached to the wall and at the end of the bed - just under the mattress my husband has attached straps from a bondage kit - these are fixed so when attached to your legs - your legs are spread wide and hands equally spread wide
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