What is unerotic to you and what is truly erotic to you?
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Unerotic - Sex in the backseat of a car. Erotic - Sex under a big shady tree in a nice park, but thatās just a fantasy Iāll never do 
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Due to my height, I have trouble enough fitting into the front seat of a car. Sex in the back seat would not only be unerotic, it would be impossible. It seems to me that sex in the dunes that line a nudist beach would be interesting; that is, if sex was allowed on the nudist beach. The dunes and the grasses along the dunes would provide just enough privacy, I think. Of course, big blankets would be needed to avoid sand problems . . .
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Unerotic- the use of the word ābreedingā
Erotic - actual love making with passion.
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āSexyā lingerie. I donāt find it at all erotic. In factās a turn off for me. Prefer just naked bodies. Same goes for any clothing thatās meant to be sexy. I donāt know why.
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Iām finding it very hard to find enjoyable āErotic Fiction.ā Itās generally completely unerotic for meā¦
So many of the female characters are totally unrelateable. Either pathetically weak or ridiculously arrogant. And the novels seem to try too hard, lol.
And I started to read one book where the guy kept calling the woman āpreciousā which for me was 
I can find a sex scene in a general fiction book more erotic.
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Never say never @user702 who knows whats just around the corner.
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Well it generally isnāt, in fact not on any beach irrespective of any designation to be fair.
However if no-one is there who is to say it happened of course ! We love outdoor activities and something about the dunes with the grasses and undulating terrain that makes it truly erotic for us. The icing on the cake was when a 20s couple watched us about 18mths ago, it was off the scale erotic.
Un-erotic for me is my partner in lingerie, just doesnāt do anything really (although Iām trying) just get them off instead !
Unerotic = anal play, I seem to have inherited IBS which makes anal play really not fun 
erotic = sensation play, sensory deprivation, bondageā¦ I could go on.
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Unerotic = lazy , boring missionary with no passion . Erotic can be many things . Sensual caress , food fun , thermal play , massage , teasing , roll play , submissive . My list could go on for a long time .
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Unerotic - baked bean baths! 
Erotic - bubble baths 
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Unerotic - humiliation. I get it but itās not for me, giving or receiving.
Erotic - Iām with @Tenshadesandme sensory and sensation play is fantastic. Giving or receiving.
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Nothing worse than lazy sex!
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You might try Olivia Cunningās āBackstage Passā. It features the character sex psychologist Myrna Evans, and she is not pathetically weak or ridiculously arrogant. The book is definitely erotic.
Thanks for the suggestion. Itās available on Kindle so will go it a go.
Weāve had a couples mud bath, then showered together to clean up, that was eroticā¦
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I was able to check out the Olivia Cunning books from the public library. They might actually have it at your library. I was able to access it through the Libby app.
@ApolloSwallow . Have a look at ,
Haven of obedience, by Marina Anderson.
No schmaltzy love storyā¦ its just pure lust and sex.
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Search for āBaie des cochonsā not 100% on spelling, but itās the beach by Cap dāAgde and is renowned for very public sex. Never been, but gather itās mainly in the āswingers high seasonā - Sept/Oct.
If the online videos are to be believed is very full on.
Ooo sounds muddy! I often imagine Iād just get stuck in it and not be able to Wade out of the tub lol
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