Hi April here, Thought I would drop in to give a little update to all those who replied to my question on Anal for women. Well last night after me and my boyfriend went to bed after watching a few movies. As we started playing around and right before things got too heated while he was going down on me. I told him as I was guiding one of his fingers to my butt hole that I would like for him to try to get it in. He then turned and got the lube that I had in my nightstand drawer then put some on my anal and his finger. As he was gently pushing his finger in as I was holding on to it and guiding it I with my other hand was rubbing my vagina and clit we were able to get his finger all the way and I just had him to just hold it in there for a while without moving it which has started to feeling pretty good. After he pulled out things got pretty heated and I gotta say that we had one of the best lovemaking sessions that we have ever had since we been together. I still haven’t gotten to trying some of the other things that was recommended to me, I will but as of right now. We are just still working with his and my finger. Again a big thank you to all who gave feedback.
I have read that anal is easier if there is an effort to do a lot arousal beforehand. Your stimulating of your clit is probably in line with this. Also, anal orgasms are really G-spot orgasms. Information from the web says:
“Another path to anal orgasm involves stimulating parts of the internal clitoris through the back door. The so-called G-spot (on the front wall of the vagina) . . . [is] reachable through anal penetration. It’s a good idea to ease into it gradually, starting with external stimulation around the anus . . . “Work up to a finger, and you can also use toys to help.””
Yay! I’m so happy for you both. Rermember clean, trim nails, lots of lube and go slow. Even if you don’t get all the way up to anal sex, anal play can be incredibly fun and sexy for you both. Good luck!
This is fantastic news! May it continue and progress for you both 
April here: Thank you, He keeps his nail very short and clean always because he knows that they have to be that way before he ever fingers me. I am keeping things very slow and have decided to just keep using a finger, his or mines. Gotten say whenever I ask for one of his fingers he has been very gentle and slow when inserting it in me there. I usually start off taking his finger and guide it until it gets to where I want it to be along with me taking my other hand stimulating my clit which feels so dawn good. Him licking me there and fingering are the only thing that we are going to do for right now for as anal goes. Thanks again!