Does anyone think that using a vibe for a quick stimulate clit too often afects yours sex life? As in i get impatient when trying to stimulate during sex and I fustrated. could this be as a result of using a vibe?
I don't think the vibe changes anything apart rom making you more stimulated and faster, plus when you use avibe the sensation is much different to other kinds of manual stimulation, so its better by comparison if you like faster, more intense orgasms the kind that a vibe brings about, but at the same time manual stimulation cn be just as good - but when we love our vibrators we do make the compariison because sex toys treat us to aquick route to orgasm - but with orgasms the more you get the more you want, so its no bad thing to use a vibe alot, quite the opposite I think
I've not found a problem. When I vibe myself I tend to go in for the kill, so to speak, and I orgasm very quickly. I find that this actually makes me appreciate the stimulation that my boyfriend gives me more, whether that's manual or with toys, since he makes it build up more and teases, so I love it. I generally find that I get much more of a satisfying orgasm from my boyfriend, since he takes longer to do it!
Hiya Tracy and welcome to the OA!
I use vibrators lots and don't think they have any negative nerve effects at all!
Have you considered using your vibrator during sex or perhaps investing in a vibrating cock ring? There's lots to chose from if you have a search in the male sex toys section of the website. For example, this one is really cheap but I've used it and loved it: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14798
There's also the We-vibe that is supposed to be amazingly stimulating, I've not tried it but I'm desperate to get one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14504
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I must admit when I first started using vibrators I did use them too much and it often caused my clit to be very numb and not able to be aroused my non -vibrator methods.
You do get used to a certain sensation but you just have to be patient! The other night I was picking a vibe when I thought I would go back to the old fashioned method - my hand! It made a really nice change. I think we do forget what it's like to not have toys. However, the more orgasms you have, the more you want so I'm all for some vibrating fun x
Interesting question, I don't really have an answer as my nerves are rather bizarre anyway thanks to chronic pain. I also find orgasming without a toy very difficult due to my inability to relax so none of my problems are really toy related, in fact they probably help more than they hinder.
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Thanks for all your ideas guys. I've given me some ideas and some stuff to think about.
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