Heather here.
I/we do vaginal fisting on me, but not anally. I don’t like or want anything big in my bottom.
I’d never done or tried vaginal fisting before getting with my husband.
It turns out I like it and he does too.
Another reason I like it is that Jeffrey is able to get a few fingers up into my fornices, the anterior fornix and posterior fornix. Due to Jeffrey’s girth and the side of the head of his penis, he’s not able to go around my cervix and into the fornices with his penis.
When he fists me vaginally, he’s able to do that. It helps him being inside of course, but for another reason too and that’s because Jeffrey’s hands aren’t big. From where Jeffrey’s wrist meets his hand, it’s only 6 inches to the end of his longest finger. It’s less than 6 inches on his other fingers. So when his hand is on the outside of my vagina and he uses his fingers on me, they don’t go in very far.
Another reason I like it when he fists me is that once he’s inside my vaginal opening, it feels better for me as his wrist is smaller around than his fist when pointing all 4 fingers up with the thumb by them to make his fist as “narrow” as possible.
My vaginal opening feels good when his wrist is there as the girth is less.
Keeping to this post, which is about vaginal and anal fisting, I’ll leave specifics out, but Jeffrey’s girth is a tad bit larger around than his fist when he makes it narrow. When Jeffrey’s penis is in me, his shaft is fairly uniform, until the base where it’s larger, so there is no relief for my vaginal opening when his penis is inside me.
When his fist is inside of me, it feels better on my vaginal opening once his fist has gone inside of my vagina as his wrist is smaller and his fingers may reach my fornices as I’ve said, which he’s unable to reach with the head of his penis due to his girth.
Before Jeffrey I never thought about vaginal fisting, had never done it, didn’t see a reason to do it.
With the way Jeffrey and I are, our bodies, it’s a nice addition to our sex lives.
Jeffrey uses toys on me vaginally to reach my fornices but it was helpful for him to get his fist in there which enabled his short fingers to reach my fornices as it’s helped him out with the lay of the land in there:) which makes it better and easier for him to use toys in my fornices.