Vaginal and anal fisting

Hi everyone! I’m new here :wink:

I would like to talk about fisting - both vaginal and anal.

I decided to try this activity not long ago and only managed to place my hand inside it for the third time. it was a very interesting feeling. I haven’t tried anal fisting yet but I can’t imagine it, I guess I’m too tight. do you practice this sexual activity? what do you think about it? do you like it? What toys or things do you use for this?

I invite you to the discussion :wink:

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I don’t mean this as any kind of judgement on you or anybody else who enjoys it, but I find the whole idea of fisting a complete turn-off.

It’s one of the very few sexual practices or preferences that leaves me completely cold, and if I stumble on it while watching porn, I instantly skip it. (Sorry)

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Its not something I enjoy but there are some on the forum that love it, so I’m sure they’ll be along soon enough to share their experiences.
There are also other threads on the subject, so you may get some perspectives there also.

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Thanks for the answer :wink:
I understand that you may not like it, but it’s really turned on for me, it makes me not load the fun.
We are waiting for other people then :wink:

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My OH likes fisting, anal fisting takes a longer time, and a LOT of lube and patience. Here is my personal view as a fister and my OH has fistee.

He loves the feeling of being slowly opened, its very psychological too, it took several times to make the hand fully in and he was shaking on excitement (literally) . Personally i don’t like that feeling for myself, so i’m not into it, but i do like to be the fister. There is a very interesting connection on fisting, i feel responsibility for pushing his limits while being careful, there is an interesting feeling because you can feel the other persons heartbeat in your hand, and how it gets faster as the pressure goes up, and a sense of relief as it gets to the wrist.

I don’t think this is a thing to do fast, carelessly and just “part of sex”, FOR ME it should be a completely isolated activity with his own mindframe, or else it gets banal and looses his magic.

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Worm and bucket springs to mind.

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My wife enjoys vaginal fisting every now and again
nothing quite like the feeling of your hand all the way in but then try your foot, given how sensitive it is the feeling for me is really pleasurable, i get anally fisted by my wife really like the feeling of being pushed to the limit and further cant go any wider(bones) so now its depth

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I think “fisting” is kind of a misnomer. The hand never really forms a fist, more like an elongated duck bill with thumb tip touching lower middle finger joint.

I like having a hand pushed up into my vagina. There’s spots inside that can only be reached this way. But as for anal…probably not going to happen.

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Never tried it but it’s on my list of curiosity, not that I’d want to be fisted myself :sweat_smile:.

For anal training you’d be looking at slowly building up to bigger toys and practicing at least every other day maybe… some find poppers help and even anal fisting lubes or creams.

I’d suggest maybe a toy what inflates as they tend to be good for this stuff

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For training you can’t go wrong with this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/large-butt-plugs/p/doc-johnson-titanmen-intimidator-anal-plug-10-inch/a17540g21470.html
Size and ease of use/progression and therefore money saving can’t beat it

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I enjoy a bit of vaginal stretching, definitely. but insofar as fisting? It’s of those “if I get there then I do, and if I don’t, that’s cool too” things for me. What I mean to say is: it’s not a must-do for me, but it’s not a hard limit either.

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We started because my husband wanted to be fisted anally. I saw how much fun he had, so wanted to try it.

We don’t do it much, but I like being both vaginally and anally fisted. I just love being filled, and fisting is amongst the fullest you can get. It is as much psychological as physical though, so half the turn on is knowing what your partner is doing to you, feeling what they are doing to you. Takes some practise at the start, but now, we don’t have any problems.

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My wife will fist me on occasion. Usually after a long pegging session where I am already stretched out a bit. The turn on is more psychological than physical for me, just knowing her hand is up my bum is such a turn on.

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Looks like an art piece you could have on display haha

Just stick a lamp shade on it and people would assume its a light

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We have been trying to get my fist into her pussy for about six months. We seem to be getting in a little further each time we try. Hopefully it wont be long now.

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I would be interested in both but any time we tried it just didn’t fit and neither of us are devoted enough to work on stretching. Well, I am but that’s different.

Vaginal is easier to achieve in a shorter time, anal m or f is a much longer process easily 6 months to a year, small hands really help so a female with little hands is great to help a guy out say, you need to be able to take a 3" wide butt plug to help you progress, i was lying on my back last week with my wife between my legs most of her fore arm in me, not quite at the elbow, yet?

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I started fisting my wife’s pussy about 6 months ago and not am able to insert all 5 fingers. I have had anal intercourse which she will take once in awhile. I started with 1 finger, then 2 then 3 fingers. using lots of lube. She has to be very relaxed as I use the vibrator on her clit she relaxes and has a few squirting orgasms. I then insert 4 fingers and she gets really excited. I am able after 2-3 months to get my whole hand in her ass and have been able to reach deeper than my fist. I have tried on occsaasions to fist her vagina snd then her ass. Very slowly . I now have my hand in her pussy upo to my wrist and the other hand up her ass about 3 " past my wrist. My wife is screeming with opleasure squirting all of the bed. I now am able to insert my generous cock in either hole for added pleasure. We have had success doing this only a fee times and only after drinking a lot. The next day she is as tight as a drum in both holes. Next we will tyry fisting me.

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We started fisting because the toys I used got bigger and bigger. so each time we played with my ass my OH added more fingers until eventually her hand was wrist deep inside my ass. I just love having something in my ass and really like to be stretched and completely full.

We slowly build op to fisting with different toys. What I like and love about fisting is both physical and psychological. Physically it is the feeling of being stretched and feeling completely full and seeing a whole hand disappear up your ass, which is an amazing sight. The psychological bit the knowing that a whole hand or hands is/are wrist deep or even deeper up your ass, which is an huge turn on.

My wife doesn’t want to be fisted we have tried fisting her pussy but it doesn’t do much for her, but she loves fisting my ass.

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