Well I tried to comment on an old thread but it was locked so here we are!
Can anybody recommend a good lube for vaginal fisting please? Determined to get the OH to try this with me, he will be more nervous about it than I am 😂 But as there's nothing else involved, and dear god he needs training in the art of foreplay, I thought this was an ideal thing to work up to.
Thanks muchly 😁✊🏻
Hi VioletWolf, would you be better with an good anal lube that is a bit thicker and longer lasting?
Never done it personally but I do no LH sell fisting lubes, i think it's mainly for anal fisting but should be fine for vaginal fisting
I know lovehoney do sell fisting lube but to be honest I've always used our regular lube and it has always be suitable.
Most of the fisting lubes contain glycerin & I'm not sure how you feel about that ingredient, so I'll advise a thick gel lube instead. Personally I've tried this one and had no problems http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15949
Like Nat, we use Sliquid. Although we have never fully accomplished fisting yet (a couple of 9lb babas out my hoo ha you'd think it would be easier 😆), sliquid is glorious for the attempts so far.
Hey all
I wrote a description this week for a brand new silicone-based fisting lube which is perfect for vaginal fisting.
I *believe* it's due to go live this week so keep your eyes peeled!
Delboy1991 wrote:
I wouldn't recomment the first option... As it says in the title this is for anal fisting due to its high glycerine content.
We always just use normal Lovehoney lube for a bit of extra slip. Always done the job for us.
Jumping on the Sliquid Gel Lube bandwagon, I swear by the stuff for everything inc anal.
Thanks for all the suggestions! Jess did I see somewhere you'd done a vid on this? Will keep an eye out for the newbie either way 😁
You could get him to wear a glove that can make it easier to slide in but dulls the feeling for him then once he's got the knack use his bare hand. Have a mirror so you can watch too and if required give firm instructions like just keep pushing?
VioletWolf wrote:
Thanks for all the suggestions! Jess did I see somewhere you'd done a vid on this? Will keep an eye out for the newbie either way 😁
Hey VioletWolf
I did! Here's a link to the video if you'd like to watch it: How to Fist
And here is the Silicone Fisting Lube I was talking about earlier 😊
Silicone lube, although yet to try a silicone fisting lube, but with vaginal fisting silicone is often
We use Maximus for this (and just about everything else come to think of it).
It's really thick and lasts for ages.
Just a note of caution - make sure you direct the action and not your OH. You know best when you're 'full' so to speak. We've been working up to it for about 6 months now, and managed it fully just before Christmas.
We started by buying this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34871 to get my OH used to somthing a little girthier than me or her usual toys. Our advice is (in working-up-to-it order!):
1 - Add a extra finger to the first attempt. I.e. If he normally uses two, use three.
2 - Keep using the same amount of fingers until you can take them all comfortably with no fuss, then add another. Repeat until you can have four fingers.
3 - Add his thumb.
4 - Get used to this until your very comfortable.
5 - Each time he has all five digits inside you, get him to put a little extra pressure on. Don't do this repeatedly and/or vigorously! Just have all of them, and push gently. This will get you used to the sensations and allow to work out when you can take more or when to stop.
6 - Keep trying this over and over, each time a little (TINY) bit further. Eventually he may be able to get past the last knuckle on his thumb. That's the widest point, so when you've got this far, keep repeating until it's easier.
7 - Warn him to be prepared to be sucked in! When we first managed it fully, she pulled the rest of my hand in and neither of us were expecting it!
You will need a lot of lube for this, and you'll have to keep reapplying it - no matter how thick or long lasting it is.
You will need to be hornier than you've ever been before - the hornier you are, the more relaxed you'll be.
It may not be possible for you - I've had exes who wanted to try this, but for whatever reason it just wasn't going to happen. Expect little, and anything extra is a bonus.
This is how it happened for us anyway, but YMMV. Hope this helps!
Before I forget - if you do suceed... Tell him to be prepared for your massive cheshire cat like grin! My OH was grinning for days and felt incredibly proud that she could fit my whole hand inside her...  Never been sure what to make of that really!
Happy fisting!
Oh, nearly forgot! Tell him to pull out slowly if you do manage it!
You're a babe Jess, thanks 👍🏻😃😘
HLB I've done it in the past but the guy knew what he was doing and sorted lube etc, can't remember what he got though! But shall pass all of this on to my OH as he's new to it all! All tips are received very gratefully, so thank you 😁😁
I've bought it but not had chance to use yet, because shark week 😒 Hoping to give a good test run this coming week, will review asap from there and comment back here with how I find it 👍🏻