Hi all,
I had a thought the other day, and maybe I’m complicating things, but what would you say is better for vaginal sex in your experience?
Have your partner insert his penis into your vagina OR have your partner guide her vagina onto your penis?
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I’m all for being in control of the moment of penetration of my wife’s pussy
But after that I love her setting the pace and controlling the depth of penetration
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@user632 I enjoy being guided too but penetration during doggie and missionary is great for the visuals and being able to go as slowly as possible to get the maximum stimulation as your glans starts to stretch her
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I’m approaching this from a different point of view as the only penetrative sex we have is her pegging me but, depending on the circumstances, I enjoy either.
I enjoy her guiding the dildo into me when she’s spooning me or taking me from behind in doggy and she’s being dominant but there are other times when I’m on top in cowgirl (cowboy) and i guide the dildo into me and lower myself down on it.
Either way works for us depending on the situation.
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We do a bit of both sometimes she guides me in other times I do it. Love it in doggy when she controls the movement and it’s amazing watching her big ass move as she rides my penis.
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Yes. Until she started pegging me I didn’t realise how intimate and wonderful it was to allow someone else inside your own body.
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My wife tends to hold her pussy open and leave me to guide myself inside her.
Seems to work, and no complaints from me!
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Hubby loves it when I grind against him and part A slips into part B. It’s kind of a bit of a backstory to when we were “just friends” (with benefits) and the first time we had unprotected sex, I was kind of roleplaying that it shouldn’t happen but it had and now it will just have to be our secret. Suffice to say, he now loves “keeping secrets” with me 
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9/10 my wife guides my penis into her vagina. 9/10 we have sex in the evening when our children are asleep upstairs so we have the room pretty dark just in case they come down so when it’s dark and me not being massive porn star size or skills then it’s easier and quicker for her to guide me in. 1/10 in the daytime when we have the house to ourselves and can get her sexy lingerie and our toys out then I can see the goal and can guide myself 
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The OH nearly always guides my penis into her vagina as she says that my aim is rubbish. She usually rubs the tip against her clit a few times, before feeding it in, once she comfortable then I start thrusting into her.
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Depends whatever you feel most comfortable with, I like to guide the penis in as I feel like I have a little bit more control and I can get it in the right spot. I find that whenever my partner put it in I took longer to reach orgasm and it didn’t feel “quite right”. Everyone is different though! (:
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My OH always guides me in she loves getting hold of it and using her other hand spreads herself
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I normally guide his penis as he has no sense of direction. A few times when left to his own devices it has nearly ended up elsewhere whether that be accidentally or on purpose who can say. 
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Sorry to pull up an old message, but I love being pegged and would love her to peg me more regularly. But does your OH not miss getting no penetration herself? My wife would hate if I never put my dick in her. Most of her orgasms come from fingers or tongue but she still begs for my dick.
She doesn’t miss it at all, and nor do I. It was essentially her choice but I was more than happy to go along with it.
She has all the orgasms she can handle from toys operated by me or by herself.
The body orgasms she gives me from anal penetration or from nipple play are far better than my penis orgasms.
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Unfortunately I have never had an orgasm from pegging alone but I wish to have one soon. Any dildo you would recommend for pegging? Thanks
Love finding my way into her vagina, rubbing on the outside before teasing the entrance with slow and shallow penetration. However my aim isn’t always good so she will take my penis and guide it in. Love the feel when she grabs it to guide it in and gives it a few tugs as well as the look on her face as I enter her.
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It’s very much a personal taste and it also depends on how much experience you have with different sized dildos.
Most times we use an 8” long x 7” circumference dual density dildo with a slight curve but occasionally I need to be stretched and filled so we use a 10” long x 9” circumference extra girthy Life-like Lover dildo.
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Thanks. I’m quite experienced so 8” sounds good. Hopefully will pick up a dual density for Christmas 
The OH always guides me into her vagina as;
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My aim can be shocking
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She can position it so it hits the right spot.