Vanilla and ages

Age: 51
Anal: Not vanilla
Cum Facials: Not vanilla
Filming Sex: Not vanilla

Guess I’m a prude at heart.

We must be on the same boat.
I’m 38 & OH 36 and they are all not vanilla. Does that make us boring and old? :thinking:

@M32
I agree.
Don’t know if it’s good or bad but to me it’s not good when thinking about my kids growing up too fast!

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Way back in my younger days I wouldn’t do any of this but now …

Age: 57
Anal: Vanilla
Cum Facials: Vanilla
Filming Sex: Vanilla

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It is, and then I think about what kinds to things the boys in secondary school are doing and saying around the girls.
But some of the girls can be just as bad too - it really makes me cringe.

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Good call! @M32 :muscle:

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With the right punch or kick your wee lass will put an end to any verbal abuse she’s receiving.
Wouldn’t call it violence, just self defense.

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Use to do it years ago, it was drummed in as self defence not offence.

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I think these areas are all non- vanilla.
There has to be something that’s pushing boundaries in your sex life.
If these are vanilla, what then constitutes as non-vanilla.? Down to the individual I suppose.
Or is nothing regarded as too out there now.?

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Being a geek (and proud!), I’m thinking this needs some sort of graph / chart to see if there is any correlation between age and “perceived vanilla-ness”! @Ian_Chimp, any ideas? :rofl: :rofl: I’m not sure the results so far are showing the trend I expected!

I answered all not vanilla too. I didn’t know what to put for anal, since I enjoy it regularly and would consider us, as a couple, to be rather vanilla but I think most of my friends would be shocked / horrified by my revelation (I only have one friend who I would talk to about sex and even she was surprised although not judgemental).

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Good idea @Kitty-Cat01

I would say they are all vanilla and I’m old… but alot comes into the whys and whens of it

I’m afraid the forum polls aren’t sophisticated enough to handle linked fields, so I don’t think they’ll be any help this time. :man_shrugging:

Edit: There may be a way after all… Brenna is mulling it over. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Age: 27
Anal: Vanilla
Cum facials: vanilla
Filming sex: Not vanilla

Age: 28
Anal: not vanilla
Cum facials: not vanilla
Filming sex: not vanilla

I wouldn’t consider any of these to be vanilla. However I do feel due to porn, books, films etc showing more of this that it has become more of a “common/normal” (not sure of the right word) thing that is expected now.

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This post has proved more interesting that when I started it. Anybody know a sociology professor? Might be an interesting academic study in this :joy:

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Age: Early 20s
Anal: not vanilla
Cum facials: not vanilla
Filming sex: not vanilla

I’m wondering if there may be an element of bravado in declaring all three vanilla, by younger people when asked to respond. ?
Just a thought.?

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My concern would be that if they are considered vanilla, or there is a perception they are, by some ages groups some people will feel pressured to do things they are not comfortable with because they believe it’s “normal”…

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Age: early 30s
Anal: vanilla?
Cum facials: not vanilla
Filming sex: not vanilla

I think it depends on your personal definition so I’ve listed anal as vanilla yet I don’t think it particularly is but it’s something we do very regularly so for us it’s just the norm?
I think porn (particularly some of the hardcore stuff) is so readily available these days that young people think that’s ‘normal’. Which it is for some people don’t get me wrong but I have many friends who have had new sexual partners who (without first asking consent) have been extremely rough during their interactions which I woudl find pretty alarming if I was in that position and I didn’t know and trust them (ie setting boundaries first).

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Age: 40s
Anal: not vanilla
Cum facials: not vanilla
Filming sex: not vanilla

It can vary widely based on individuals.
Like @CurvyNurse said there is more readily available porn out there so younger generation has more access to see sex in all sorts of forms. Which I agree leads to some behavior being mimicked but likely shouldn’t be without some base or discussion. Also, with as much as I’ve seen on a screen I’ve not been DOING a lot of those things lol

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