I am seeking a "as realistic as possible" dildo, preferably harness compatible, and would welcome some advice re my hunt for one that's "just right" - right size and texture.
Firstly I purchased my wife the Goliath - a high quality offering by Tantus about the same size as I am when erect. Despite claims that the silicon material it's made out of is flexible, she found it hard and uncompromising and after just few uses it's been consigned to the bottom of the toy box.
I then acquired a lifelike rubber penis with testicles which is definitely softer and more pliable than the Goliath, but she still says that it's too hard and causes some discomfort on insertion. Her actual description is that this one also forces her open rather than "giving" slightly like my cock does when it's slowly eased into her.
I've been looking at getting another and have been looking
at products made of UR3 and Cyberskin. Bearing in mind that one of these is likely to set me back another £50.00 or so, I don't want to order one only to find there's no real difference from what we already have. Any comments from those who have used a Cyberskin/UR3 dildo, and can
offer a comparison against silicon/rubber/jelly, would be a great help.
We've a harness that uses "O" rings, and have also picked up a vac-u-loc mounting that can be fitted to it. I've noticed that Doc J makes a 6" and 8" vac-u-lock UR3 dildo -does anyone have experience of it ?
Many thanks in advance
Flameuser.