I just purchased a WeVibe Tango for my OH and I to play with. We played around with it on our last session, she tried it, but quickly set it aside, stating it didn’t feel good. I had bought another less vigorous g-spot vibe for her before and she did not like it either. So the question is, are some women just so sensitive to the vibrations that the toys do not feel good. Or, does it take a bit of learning to find the right place to use them on. I would love for her to enjoy the devices and have it push the pleasure level off the charts as so many women speak of.
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I don’t know if its the Tango 2 or the Tango X you bought, though I doubt it makes much difference. Did she try the different strengths and patterns? Different locations? Perhaps you need to incorporate it in foreplay rather than just giving it to her to try.
It maybe that vibration of that type isn’t for her. She might prefer the broadheaded, deep rumbly vibration of the the mains powered Wand or a clit suction toy, like the Womanizer X. My OH much prefers the suction toys these days and finds smaller vibes uncomfortable.
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It’s different for everyone, some of the common issues are:
- the vibrations are too strong;
- the vibrations are too weak;
- the vibrations are at the wrong frequency;
- the vibrations are too targeted;
- the vibrations are not targeted enough;
- the toy isn’t hitting the right spot;
- vibrations just don’t work for them, either in that spot or generally and they need movement/pressure/another type of stimulation
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We tried a couple and she couldnt do with the vibrating so stopped we now have a realistic dildo what has compleatly changed things she loves it
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It’s just the Tango 2, not X, I think the vibration patterns are similar from what I read. We tried a cheap plastic one a long time ago, it was more buzzzzy, the Tango is deep and rumbly. She did test some different patterns, but we didn’t stay with it for that long to sort that out. I liked the deep rumble, so it may wind up being my toy after all is said and done. What I liked about it is its size, really small not intimidating. The other vibe is a Lelo g-spot type with a bulbulous head which might hit her better if inserted, which we did not try. I did get her a glass dildo to play with, but we did not use that yet. Maybe I encourage her to try it next time. Since it doesn’t vibrate she might like it more. I thought about a silicone dildo that is more life like, but since this is our first try I wanted something that was not as large, and certainly not bigger than me 
, though I’m not small by any means.
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Yeah a dildo is completely different for her as it’s more flexible I’d say, we used a vibrator but as soon as we turned it on she didn’t like it so it never got used but now she says get the dildo out so totally opposite
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If you keep it for yourself .. I find the deep rumble from the wand applied firmly to my glans travels right through to my prostate .. If the Tango is anything like that .. you’re in for a good time. 
My OH is no longer keen on hard plastic dildos. I mean she prefers suction over everything but if she was to choose a dildo it’d be soft silicone, preferably the dual layered variety and realistic. I think she finds them less intimidating visually and more natural physically.
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I found applying the Tango to my perineal area quite stimulating. It is very powerful for its size.
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Usually it takes a few tries and a bit of a learning curve to find out what feels good. I have tried toys that I thought I didn’t like, then gone back later and found out I just wasn’t hitting the right spot or using the right vibration. Give the toys to her and encourage her to experiment with them on her own time. Don’t give up right away.
From personal experience, some toys require patience and more time. I’ve had many toys where I’ve tried it once and given up because it wasn’t great. But I always went back - everthing deserves a second chance 
I also agree, that not every toy is compatible and some women require small vibrations (or none) while other like powerful toys like wands.
Just trying out the Tango on myself I found some places responded well to,the vibrations, and some not as much. When you DO hit a good place it can be incredible. I would hope she would give it another go, but past behavior doesn’t lean that way.