Hello! I’m a first time poster and would love some creative ideas for using a vibrator together as a couple. I’ve bought a bullet to have some fun with for both me and my man. Give me your best tips!
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Hello and welcome to the site!
Experiment. Try it out on the lower setting/speed and work your way up. The bullet is nice, a bit less intense than larger wand massagers.
Try the bullet both ways and by that I mean you may use the tip of it as well as the side of it and that will be a bit larger, cover a tad more surface area for you.
Of course it may be used on the clit, so try it different ways, the tip, the side, different speeds.
Also, try it on different sides of your clit. Different women like stimulation of their clit in different places such as the left or right side, the top or the bottom or somewhere in between them.
The clitoris has crura (legs) that extend below the clitoris and under the skin to either side of the vaginal opening. This is why some women like or favor a certain side of her clit being touched, rubbed, licked etc.
Of course your new bullet may be used on your or his nipples, on your or his perineum area, on the inside of the thighs etc.
It may be used when he is fingering you or when his penis is inside of you.
Don’t be afraid to simply explore and practice for a while together or even alone to see how it feels, where you like it, where you don’t, on what settings etc.
Experiment about how hard or soft you press down with it on your clit, nipples, perineum, inner thighs etc. Some like a lighter touch, others like it to be pressed down a bit harder.
Practice and experimentation will let you both figure out what you like and don’t like with this.
I wish you both the best with this and other things.
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Well he can use the bullet on you, your nipples, clitand outer lips, then ypu could tease his penis .. im sure youll find where each other best vibration areas are for each other
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The bullet also has a very small profile, making it ideal for clitoral stimulation during sex, which I would 100% recommend based on my wife’s response.
Might I suggest working in some light dom/sub play.
Have him lie on the bed and tell him he is not allowed to touch you (tie him up if you have restraints). You then use the toy on yourself, going slowly all round your body, your nipples and tease your clit. Make it so he really wants to touch you before you stop teasing yourself.
When you get close you can ask him if he wants a go? Let him have some fun with the toy on you. If he is not hitting the right spot then guide him as it’s very hot having someone tell you where/how they like it.
Mrs C did this to me early in our relationship and it drove me wild.
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Welcome!
We have one bullet and it gets used mostly for solo play. The thing about a bullet is they tend to be a little harder to grip when you are moving bodies around.
We have enjoyed the Lovehoney Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring because of the cock ring portion holding it in place. I know there are variations that accept a stand alone bullet so that might be something to look at. Alternately just create the same contact manually by placing the bullet against you while he penetrates you.
Try taking turns playing “find the spot” where you each get 1-5 minutes to find where it feels best on the other person. You could allow clues “warmer, warm, hot!” or have the person do it blind folded.
Have fun!
Hello!
We have a wand; my OH lays on her back and I lay on top in the missionary position. This allows her to stimulate her clit and the head of my penis at the same time, which is most enjoyable!
Have fun!
JbG
I have a very small cheap plastic bullet that I like to use when masturbating by simply putting it on a low setting and placing it between my butt cheeks so it vibrates against my butt hole and perineal area. The additional stimulation feels great. Have fun exploring your options.
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Could I suggest trying a wee- vibe .not a traditional vibrator but great for simultaneous pleasure for you both,gives you internal and clitoral sensation plus the buzzing on his cock while Inside you is great for him too and also gives the sensation of being and little bit fuller when his inside at the same time.
we loved ours when we first got it and also leaves both sets of your hands free to do other stuff .takes a bit of adjusting to hit the right spot at first but when it does it’s amazing.hope this helps
Hey @Bex welcome to the forum 
I have a couple of bullets with the Magic Bullet being my favourite because it’s slightly easier to hold than the Gold Bullet we have.
It’s fantastic for teasing each other or nipple play - I will often use it on the lowest setting. If you want to go one step further, I can suggest integrating a suction toy into the mix. Oh loves using it during play (in and around his area) especially when paired with the bullet 