My wife recently mentioned that she likes the thought of being woken up by my penis in her mouth, and leading to a blowjob. (We were initially talking about waking her up with sex, and me waking her up with oral etc.)
Inspired by another thread asking for input on waking the guy up with a blowjob, I’d like input on how to wake my wife up by having her giving me one. I hope that made sense.
I’ve tried this a couple of times but it has always just feel a little weird and clunky. It’s not as easy as you may think to inconspicuously put your penis in someone else’s mouth who is lying flat. So if anyone has any input on any experience you have, or if not then even how you think your approach it then I’m all ears.
Though this thread is mostly re the blowjob, I’m also open to suggestions of how best to wake her up with sex (which is also more delicate than you may think).
I have had more than one man try this, and as hot as it maybe sounds to a guy, the not so sexy reality is that your mouth is maybe dry in the morning, or you’re just not, like, prepared to do it? You sort of need to be relaxed and ready to do it right.
I won’t lie it does sound hot from my perspective, but also (and just to be clear) this was something she said she wanted and wasn’t instigated or led by me.
I’ve never woken up with him just sticking it in, but it would be hard to sneak anyways due to me being a light sleeper, but maybe that will change, who knows. Even in the middle of the night when he’s woken up and wanted me, he’s woken me up with touch first before penetrating. He’s got pre consent for free use, but he’s never just stuck it in without making sure I’m warned up first.
So far the best way he wakes me up with sex is when I wake up to him playing with me with soft, gentle touches in endogenous zones, gradually working up to the sex bit.
I’m not really the most cheery morning person so slower is better for me. Everyone’s different though, others might like to wake up to rougher and wouldn’t mind the opposite!
Okay, yes? If that’s how it is between us. I mean, there’s gonna be some wet fingers or lube or lubed condom involved, but that can all happen pretty quickly and going from dead alseep to THERE before you’re really even awake can be super crazy intense.
Also, I’m just talking about me, but the idea of a man being so turned on just thinking about being inside me when I’m snoring away that he can’t resist it?
oh says it’s fair for her to wake me up with her mouth if it’s ok for me to wake her up with my penis. Sounds fair to me! I’ve never gotten my penis in very far. More just rubbing the head on her vagina - till she wakes and spreads her legs for me.
I’m afraid I can’t help re waking her with a blowjob, but I would advise caution if she has any self defence training you know about. Hubby knows I used to train, he trained with me. He decided to wake me up with some oral once, instinct kicked in and I almost broke his nose for him
It’s gonna be awkward no matter what. I recommend just doing it, or start with gently rubbing against her lips or cheek so its not as jarring at first.
I’ve woken up with my husband in me up to the hilt. It was quite a shock but I loved the fact that he slid it in when I was asleep. It didn’t take long for him to cum. Then he finished me off and we went back to sleep.
@Gareth
Nice idea but so dangerous and awkward- my biggest concern is you slide your manhood in and either she bites down or it stops her from breathing and she wakes up in a panic
Usually slip it between her legs lining it up with her pussy, if she wakes up in the mood, she will grind against it until she is wet enough for it to slip in.