I would love to do wake up my queen like this… but I fear she may not like it (but she does love me giving her oral).
As intimate as we have been exploring each other and trying new things, this might just be a step too far, as she can’t say no until after I’ve started.
I could talk to her about it, but that would kinda ruin the surprise… but that might be me just being selfish.
Only once have I ever woken up to a partner playing with me before I was awake, which I found exhilarating, naughty, and such a turn on. Never have I ever done anything to a partner whilst they were asleep.
Have any of you ever done this without permission? Ever done it at all? Or did you discuss first to gain consent? Or something you wish to try…?
Just writing this down has already clarified my feelings towards this, and my next steps!
I’m going to talk about my desire to do this with her, but will never do so without her consent. Then “forget” about it, and then surprise her one morning with it! (as long as she does say yes originally!).
Ive never woken mrs bustywife this way, but she wakes me giving me oral, we’ll have a nice session with her having 2 or 3 orgasms before i cum and then drift back to sleep in each others arms
If your partner is anything like Mrs C, she will more than likely throw a right hook for disturbing her sleep so definitely discuss with your partner first.
I guess I feel I would be taking advantage of her, when actually she feels she is in a safe place with me - unlike her previous relationships. I do not want to destroy any trust we have built together.
Let alone get a right hook! Though she be but little she is fierce!
Communication is important, especially if they’ve had self-defence training like I have. Funny story.
My husband thought it was a good idea to wake me up with oral one day. Now, normally I would be very appreciative, but my self-defence training kind of makes me a bit “react first, ask questions after”.
So my reaction was very much to bring the ball of my hand down hard against his forehead, interlock my fingers into his hair, pull up and stare at him like I was trying to bore holes into his skull. The poor man was left lightly concussed with a headache from hell, a bright red half-handprint on his face and now very much not in the mood.
So yes, for as hot as the idea might be, make sure she’s not about to tae kwan do you first
Thank you for presenting the evidence, the defence rests, no further questions your honour!
Definitely going to let her know I would like to try it BEFORE, and only if she says yes, just in case I end up in hospital with a black eye and/or concussion!
Likewise myself. When I first studied kung fu, I was amazed that our Sifu also showed us how to stop their nosebleeds, put them in the recovery position, etc., so that even though you had to use self-defence, you’re still going to aid them as they need.
Done this with my partner a fair few times but we have spoken and agreed in past on it,started one night after a long session of love making when we we’re laid talking after and I jokingly said might have to wake you with my tongue in morning (she loves me going down on her after sex but we’d not figured this out too much at this point) she replied I’ll still be full of you (I had gone down on her a few times afterwards prior to this) I said I know you will be,her response was if your awake first lick me awake then, so I did and she loved it and I enjoyed being in her being so soaked afterwards,it is most common I wake her up after we’ve had fun night before but there’s never being an occasion either way she’s not being happy with my tongue as an alarm clock
It’s more commonly done with us now morning wise if our daughter stays out overnight but was fairly regular before having our daughter that i wake her up with my tongue after a hot night before,been occasion I’ve woken to her either sucking me or hovering over my face in the past asking if I was ready to eat (daft question ,im always ready to eat her)
No it was never discussed we probably didn’t expect it. It was a lovely surprise waking with mrs bustywife sucking me. When i was fully awake I made sure it was worth her while waking me
I have often given my husband a kiss on his knob in the morning especially when it’s hard and sometimes a quick suck on the helmet- but never full oral until I have brushed my teeth and he has a shower..
