Hi all,
Mrs W wants to be able to squirt and has been getting close with just my fingers in her after a few O’s from oral however is finding it hard to release and believes that a clit toy would push her over the edge and help achieve the “goal” as it were. She has squirted once in the past from a bullet on the clit. Which brings me onto the reason for my post. A lot of people who squirt in this forum use either a wand or womanizer, so what would people recommend and why?
TIA
My wife prefers the Womanizer to the Wand.
Her primary complaint against the Wand is on her description of it as a “blunt instrument.” I’ve used the Wand to much success at teasing and building up, but she needs the precision of direct clit stimulation to orgasm, which the Womanizer delivers (her preferred toy is actually the We-Vibe Melt, but same difference).
As to squirting, that’s a whole other topic. My wife has also only squirted once. It was with the Womanizer after an extended session of teasing and edging I think between orgasm 2 and 3 with the Pro40 on her clit and a big dildo inside that was stimulating her gspot for sure, but more incidentally than directly.
I think it would come down to preference, but if your wife enjoys direct clit stimulation I can’t imagine not trying out a Womanizer.
Have also only managed to squirt once, and ironically there were no toys involved at all, just my fingers.
Everyone will react differently to toys, so even when getting recommendations, it’s important to remember that it’s no guarantee on the end result. I do however wish you luck in finding something!
Would have to be wand over womanizer everytime. Clit sucking toys just don’t do it for my O/H.
I didn’t get on with my womaniser, so use Lelo instead. I would say my favourite toy / wand is
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/lovehoney-x-love-not-war-meile-sustainable-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a45533g82038.html which is currently sold out on LH, but available elsewhere.
I love the versatility of the head and the precision you can achieve finding and stimulating the clit / sweet spot.
For squirting, I’ve found that combining my clit sucker and glass dildo hits the spot every time. 
The wand has been my favourite but the womaniser has given me my strongest orgasms. There are time however when the womaniser clit sucking stimulation can be too much to take.
just asked my wife, she said it’s too hard to choose, both have their place so I said if she had to pick one for the rest of her life… Womanizer came out on top… JUST
It’s a very close call …… my OH does squirt with both the next and her wand ….
The wand is better in the sense it doesn’t focus solely on the clit and the vibrations are deep and rumbly it’s more of an all over sensation down there! She squirts 90% of the time with this!
The womaniser next is a whole different ball game! It is focused but not just vibrations like a bullet or vibrator…… she feels like it’s not going to get her there and enjoys the feeling but then the build up comes out of no where and BOOM! With a little internal stimulation the flood gates are opened 
She will squirt 60% of the time with the next, but can continue on to more after she has with this 
It will be different for everyone in my opinion and you will need to try different options to get the desired effect
My partner loves clit sucking toys, but the wand is just a super powerful bullet in a sense, so this might be the route you can take.
The womanizer is insanely powerful and makes my OH explode within seconds, usually with a big gush! But the wand has the benefit of being a great addition to sex and also works wonders on my cock 
I would honestly say go for a wand. It covers a large area which makes my orgasms much more intense. I don’t really pick up my womaniser toys that much anymore since they aren’t strong enough for me.
The Lovehoney Pocket Pal gets my votel it hit speeds (and abilities) my Womanizer just can’t. In fact, it’s made my Womanizer positively redundant
Thanks all, lots of helpful advice. I have read elsewhere and someone here mentioned a glass dildo - we have one but is yet to be used. It sounds like it is highly recommended alongside a bullet for example to potentially get Mrs W there? She has been getting close with just my fingers internally
Thoughts and other suggestions very welcome so we can both discuss
100% recommend the glass dildo