Just wanted to share about how wands aren’t just for labia/clit owners:
My spouse has never been super into sex toys on herself other than stuff like restraints, blindfolds, etc. She doesn’t hate them but she doesn’t like them either. Bullets, vibrators, dildos, etc are frequently used on me instead. The only exception has been the occasional buttplug/tail plug and a strapless strap on. Which is fine, I don’t mind, she doesn’t mind, we have a lot of fun and I still get to expand on my giant dresser full of toys. It’s awesome
A few months ago Lovehoney did a promotion where if you spend about $100 (Canadian) you get a free wand massager
This one:
So naturally I bought stuff (really coo leather/snakeskin stuff actually) and got the wand. I always wanted a wand but everything I knew about wands was that they were the domain of labia/clit owners and not penis owners. There were some attachments you could put onto wands, but the toy itself I assume was only for those with female presenting genitals.
Wow was I wrong. Definitely wrong.
The wand can be used on male erogenous zones during blow jobs or whatever to make things amazing. Use on the head, under the shaft, above the shaft, near the testicles, nipples, butt, etc
It feels amazing!
I was tied up and blindfolded when she surprised me with this and it just put me in such bliss.
She uses it in the traditional fashion and, as you describe, she uses it on my glans, nipples and testicles. We also have a wand cushion to mount it on and she sits me on it when I’m wearing a butt plug. The vibrations from the wand to the plug are far stronger than most vibrating anal toys.
Have you written a review for the wand on the shopping site @krzwis? If not, do consider it. It would help lots of people who might not know that wands are not just for clit owners! Glad you found something that you enjoy
I use my Hitachi mains powered wand on him quite regularly and he loves it. It needs to be when I’m already done or satisfied as he doesn’t last a minute if I use it on the head of his cock and then he is done It is quite intense so I usually do it to him through his underwear and it works so quickly that he normally cums in his pants, good to clean up the mess!
OH new wand turned up last night. We didnt use it due to tiredness but she called me in to feel how powerful it is… I was like wow babe thats really good… She then turned it up… I swear you could dig the roads up with it…
I totally back this sentiment. We own the Extra Powerful magic wand. Hubby didn’t think he’d enjoy it, he thought wands were only for women. 5 minutes of edging later and I had him converted and begging me not to stop