My husband asked that when we peg I lube up the dildo slower and he wants to see my hands around the dildo shaft while it’s in the harness being lubed up - he says it’s a massive turn on - anyone else do this
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I’ve never had the pleasure but I can imagine why it would be a turn on.
Its the anticipation of whats to come. Its your preparation and your intent. YOUR anticipation.
Seeing you lube it up with a gleeful or horny look in your eye, its all part of the theatre of it. The playfulness. Just go with it and make a big deal of sliding the lube all over, of making sure everywhere is covered, and then add a bit more to the tip and look him in the eye as you do it.
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It’s a form of cock worship as you “oil” it up for penetration have you tried it with hubby kissing the dildo and applying the lube fire you at all.
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Is it for you to peg him.
Ooh yes! My OH loves to watch me suck and lube her vibrator before I use it on myself and her. It’s a real turn on for us both 
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It’s not for pegging but I always ask my lady to apply it as slowly as possible. We don’t even have a realistic dildo but if we did I would probably love love love watching her lube that up the most.
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@Long-John-Silver - yes before I put the condom on and lube I get him to kiss / suck the dildo - after its condom and lots of lube so it’s easier to penetrate him
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@user2074 - oh yes we have a massive collection of dildos - where we both enjoy them but most are for pegging
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Yes @batjamboree, I totally see how this is a massive turn on for him to watch you lube it up. That just builds the anticipation a great deal before you start to use it on him!
Lucky guy!!! 
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Mrs W here …..
Oh yes, whenever I am going to peg Mr W I always get him to spend quite a bit of time sucking the dildo while I am wearing it and then he watches while I lubricate it just prior to insertion…… we both find this a great turn on ………xx
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@Wurger - I never thought it was a turn on- but he loves it and loves when he hears the lube squelch-
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I don’t know what it is about the sound of lube on a dildo or when using it on myself or my wife using it on me.
It’s a turn on for whatever reason. Just one of those things I guess. 
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I’m not into pegging as I’ve tried some self anal play and a little anal play by my ex GF decades ago but never found it physically enjoyable. However, for some reason I would find what you described as an extreme turn on.
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Love watching while she lubes up her vibrating dildo. Something about the way she roles her fingers around it makes me feel likes she’s got my cock in her hand ! Then watching her using it on herself drives me nuts especially when she orgasms. Just the thought of her doing that gets me hard and is a definite thought for solo play !
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Yes, I like to watch as well. It adds some tease and suspense, and to the illusion of power and control.
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Hubby lubes up my toys for me when we have our sessions and he turns them on for me. He cleans them all as well.
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I’m still getting Sexterminatrix into the idea that sucking her dildo isn’t degrading. My argument is that, if she woke up tomorrow as a man, I’d have no issue doing it for her so what difference if it’s made of flesh or silicone? I suppose because I don’t expect it from her, then she is like minded, so it’s a thing we will work through in time.
As for lubing, usually I’m the one helping out in that regard, but I agree it would look hot as hell if she were to do it in a provocative way in front of me.
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To be honest, I kind of did it by default on a dildo I was going to peg him with. Hypes him up.
I don’t get him to suck it beforehand, just have it in the harness on me and lube it up slowly for show.
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Have him so that his head is at the same height as it and move in close, make sure to tell him he can’t play or move away and touch the tip against his lips as you slowly work the lube from the base along the shaft and all over the head right under his nose. Don’t let him know when you’re going to stop and move behind him u til the very last second too, that filthy anticipation would be a huge turn on
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Wish I could get my OH to peg me.
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