I have been thinking a lot recently about watching my wife with other men and it’s driving me crazy horny. I’d love to broach the subject with her but she is such a prude when it comes to th bedroom any help??
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Just need to ask her on way or another
This sounds like something that your wife probably won’t be comfortable with.
Does she want to have sex with anyone other than you?
Tread carefully, as once you do something like this you can never undo it!
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She might entertain it as a fantasy so you could perhaps suggest it as that to see how it is received. You say she is a bit of a prude (not very nice thing to say for starters) but if she is a bit reserved in the bedroom i dont think suggesting it becoming a reality would go down well with her. As you know your wife best i think you already know what the outcome might be if you suggested it for real.
I am not a “prude” and am open to most things including fantasies but i know i would be extremely upset if hubby suggested he wanted to do this for real and if he persisted with it i would question if i wanted to remain in a relationship where he had so little thought for my feelings.
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She is very reserved in th bedroom but I would love to watch her 
Intriduce a dildo and watxh her uae it on herself … you xould get a realistic looking one
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You could try asking her to use a dildo on herself while you watch or buy one of those male torsos and ask her to use that while you watch. That way she does not have to have sex with another guy just to fulfil your fantasy.
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If your wife is sexually conservative, opening up your relationship to another man is not likely to happen at the moment.
Why not work on talking about why she isn’t more comfortable exploring desires and fantasies e.g worry about loss of control, preconceived ideas of what being sexual means. You might then be able to have fun together widening her sexual experiences, eventually talking about adding another to the dynamic.
But she has to want to talk about it, you can’t make her.
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Samantha here.
Please be very careful and sensitive to her feelings. This could be a bombshell to her. She’s probably never considered anything like this before and it could make her fell that she’s not good enough.
From my own experience….Its a big fantasy of mine to experience 2 guys at once. I was shocked to find out that ben shares the same fantasie. However, he said that although he thinks about it all the time, its his fantasy and doesn’t want to act it out. The more I thought about it, the more I agree with him. We use it as topic of dirty talk all the time during sex and it gets us both off. We do dp with him and toys to enhance the fantasy but that’s as far as it goes.
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Some times they are better left as fantasies as it avoids hurt feelings, jealousy and risks to the relationship. There are several guys onthe forum who wanted this to find their partners go off with the other guy or girl.
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It’s my number one fantasy, watching her take one cock after another, big guys queueing up outside to take their turn. I very much doubt this will happen or even anything close l but it’s still nice to think about it every now and again.
All you can do is buck up some courage and ask her but ultimately if it’s not her thing then don’t keep pushing it 
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