Me and my partner have both wanted to watch porn together for a little while now. When we go to we just do not know what to do. It takes us ages just picking somthing to watch, by then we have either gone off it or just dont want to anymore. Or when we have eventually found somthing we just do not know what to do whilst watching it.
Has anybody else watched porn with their partners? If so any tips would be fantastic! Thank you :)
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With another partner I used to and at first it was awkward then we started a game where we copied everything they did which was a lot of fun, but its defo safer to find celebrity sex tapes as they are less likely to pull an extreme move that you wont be comfortable doing!
There are some really nice porn sites for women but I cant remember the names anymore! They'd be a good safe bet. :) x
I have done it with an ex but she picked the flick (I always thought that was safest), I found it enjoyable but the thing is not to end up both just watching it and ignoring each other, Echo's game sounds fun, me and the ex more used it to spice up our foreplay, after a certain point it was just background noise.
I have watched a bit of porn with my OH. It was easy for us because I like watching porn so I already had my favourite scenarios and turn ons and I just showed them to her. She definitely enjoyed watching them, but I don't think porn is really her thing.
I think the problem with watching porn with your partner is its hard to do it in the spur of the moment. Like you said, it's a bit of a buzz kill to go "Shall we watch porn?" during foreplay then spending 10 minutes trying to find a video to watch. I would recommend finding a video or something you like and having it up and ready without your partner knowing. Then as you start fooling around, turn it on and surprise them. If your partner likes this, you could take it in turns choosing the videos and surprising the other person with it.
Echo32B - That sounds like lots of fun i will definatley have to give that a try! i never thought of celeb tapes thats a good idea, i didnt realise that there were sites aimed at women i will have to have a look around.
rockinrob - Thats what we where worried about too so Echo32B's idea would probally prevent this.
Thank you both! :)
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Secretty wrote:
I have watched a bit of porn with my OH. It was easy for us because I like watching porn so I already had my favourite scenarios and turn ons and I just showed them to her. She definitely enjoyed watching them, but I don't think porn is really her thing.
I think the problem with watching porn with your partner is its hard to do it in the spur of the moment. Like you said, it's a bit of a buzz kill to go "Shall we watch porn?" during foreplay then spending 10 minutes trying to find a video to watch. I would recommend finding a video or something you like and having it up and ready without your partner knowing. Then as you start fooling around, turn it on and surprise them. If your partner likes this, you could take it in turns choosing the videos and surprising the other person with it.
The problem with us is i havent really watched porn so have no idea where to start. My partner said he just picks a random video so that he can have a quick one and doesnt really follow a trend when picking videos.
I wanted to surprise him for when he got home from work so having it set up would definatly save lots of time and faffing about, hopefully he likes what i pick.
Thank you :)
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ArtsErotica is one female freindly porn site but I cant remember the one I used to use which is a shame as it was really good :/ x
Echo32B wrote:
ArtsErotica is one female freindly porn site but I cant remember the one I used to use which is a shame as it was really good :/ x
Thank you i will have a look x
Yep ArtsErotica is "female friendly". LustCinema also good. Beautifulagony good too although different focusing on the face
My girlfriend, now wife,have watched porn together for a lot of years now, going back to the 80's in fact. She used to read my porn mags too and would at times even go in to buy them for me. We both know that we also watch porn on our own at times too, which neither of us has a problem with. These days we tend to watch less than we used to together. Obviously going back in time the porn was less extreme than it is now but these days we watch pretty much everything, DP, anal, fisting, squirting, pegging and do all these things together with each other as well. As we have progressed with each other over the years in terms of what we do so our porn has kept track and in some ways has led us to try it as well. The best example would be having started watching anal and then we tried it and really enjoyed it. So my point would really be to level the style of porn to what you do together sexually so if you use toys then get one with toys in. Then move on when your both happy, try girl on girl or group stuff and perhaps some with anal. You can always look on line first before buying the DVD if that is the format you want. You'll be surprised what you find you might like and turns you too as you progress.
Would never buy a dvd when its all available out there for free or better still make your own and watch them back 
Only just got into this we use various sites, but it good to always find out what she's in the mood to watch prior to searching and then getting frustrated :)
Kodi/xbmc is a good source of nawty films 
My husband has surgested the idea but it dosent really turn me on, I'd much prefer to read some errotica.
Closest me and the OH have watched to porn was 50 shades of grey at the weekend.
I like to watch porn with my oh, we choose either parodys or something with a storyline. This makes me feel like I can watch the movie and then have a randy good time. Parodys are always good for a laugh, but will get you in the mood too.
Thank you all! All of your ideas/advise has helped out a lot. It went down very well and will definatley be somthing we do agan in the future.
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HoneyBear7 wrote:
I like to watch porn with my oh, we choose either parodys or something with a storyline. This makes me feel like I can watch the movie and then have a randy good time. Parodys are always good for a laugh, but will get you in the mood too.
I did come across a Pokemon parordy a while ago, at first it didnt look like a porn video neither was it on a porn site. It was the funniest thing we have ever seen
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We tried it once or twice but never really worked ... basic problem was communication, both just too shy. It also just wasn't her thing and I didn't appreciate that enough.
Will try again but maybe a little more gentle intoduction this time around.
we love to watch porn together,and have loads of movies when we want we just put one on and enjoy.and find it is such a good turn on.
Make your own. It's great fun and a real turn on. Ours are stuck on VHS so not seen for a long time in this digital age.