Watching porn

Are many (more) into watching porn now? My wife uses my PC also and I’ve been seeing porn sites in the history for at least a year that are not mine. I asked her before and she denied it but I’ve caught her a couple of times recently and she’s now admitted that she has been watching porn for quite a while and usually does when she masturbates, so it has become a regular thing for her.

I don’t mind at all and quite like that she does. She says that she’s talked about it with some of her girlfriends who do also now so it’s not just the men now!

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My long term wife watches porn. I don’t mind at all. She’s getting a bugger smartphone soon so I’ll be more jealous hehe.

She knows I watch porn.

We have both watched together before but it hasn’t gone down too well.

I can get by with watching any porn really but I found out she’s very fussy and particular so best to watch by ourselves.

She watches it when she masturbates.

The other day she was running a bath and myself and son’s weren’t around so I joked saying “don’t drop your phone in the bath!”

She said she orgasmed twice and watched male male female threesome and female female threesome.

She jokes with me saying “bet you just watch anal porn all the time…?!” hehe and I say no and she goes yeah yeah and I say sometimes. Even though it is most times :slightly_smiling_face:

We have settings in our house as young children so I had to show her how to use a VPN.

It’s healthy to watch a bit as long as you still have sex with your partner and it doesn’t change you or get addicted or you don’t try to force porn moves into real life.

Porn hub study shows more men watch more porn and more often than women. But when woman watch porn they normally watch more rough stuff than male viewers!

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Yes! :smirk:

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I watch porn if I’m having a long masturbation session but if I just want a quick orgasm I usually don’t.

I also enjoy watching porn without masturbating just to get myself more turned on and ready to jump all over my partner.

I enjoy videos without any men in them even though I very much enjoy a real life man. I find that female dominated videos help me imagine myself as part of the video compared to when it’s male dominated.

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My OH loves porn! Before me, she used to watch porn and masturbate all the time since her ex husband didn’t like sex. My ex wife didn’t like sex and didn’t like porn. Now we watch porn together and we’re making up for lost time.

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Yep and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I watch more porn than my husband does :rofl:

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Yes, I do. I’ll occasionally watch it in bed while masturbating before I get up. Helps fuel my fantasies for the rest of the day!

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We’v been married over 25 years and never watched porn… until recently. Now we love it and watch it together quite often. However, is it me or is it never easy finding good stuff? I like a bit of a story line rather than straight in with the moaning…

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I’d say with the vast array of porn in todays internet, it easily caters for everyone to enjoy and with openness being better promoted among couples and friends, majority of people have indulged in this from time to time :slightly_smiling_face:

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We both watch porn, alone and together, I work nights so why wouldn’t she watch some and have some fun? I find it fun when we have porn nights together, I’ve found out many different things that she’s into, some of which are fantasy and some of which we’ve done, as long as it’s not an unhealthy addiction then porn is a great addition to the bedroom

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I do on occasions but usually out of curiosity. It doesnt really do a huge amount for me. I find it too graphic… and yes i know thats the point! I get tingles from watching a good sex scene in a film although they tend to be few and far between.

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I think that porn dose spice up your love life it can give you some great ideas for fun or to fantasies about and try out on each other .
There was one a few week agao that blew me away a woman with a strapless dildo that ejaculates .ive seen the strapless dildos on the love honey site they look so much fun for couples :heart::heart:

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Like everything it’s individual taste and I know some people are very anti porn.

At least these days on most sites there is that much variety to search there is something for everyone’s level , tastes / fantasies.

Definitely as a couple we both look at porn together and solo.

We both like natural/ amateur than all the fake stuff.

I think it can also be damaging in some ways, giving some unrealistic expectations of sexual experiences/pleasure/positions etc, especially in the younger generations.

It’s obvious to see that in younger generations now there is expectations to perform like porn stats causing pressures in younger relationships.

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I watch a lot of porn, I can have it on in the background while I do other stuff, the OH only watches it when she wants to masturbate.
I watch any kind of porn im really adventerous whilst my OH likes cuckold, harcore, threesomes and bangbangs haha

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I do like to watch porn a lot, which I get quite embarrassed about. I don’t always watch it specifically to masturbate but it usually turns me on a lot and I like the feeling of this so usually it ends up with to me masturbating to orgasm anyway. I’ve never told my boyfriend that I watch porn but we are talking about moving in together now so am thinking he will find out at some point and how I should tell him.

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Maybe just casually start a conversation about each others turn ons - there’s bound to be things you don’t know about each other. I’m pretty sure that’s how I first told OH, he’s never really been into porn but I love it!

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Yeah I discovered this about my partner too over lockdown. Such a turn on, I just wish they were more open about what genres etc

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My OH loves porn but we’ve never really watched together.
May have to change that soon and enjoy some mutual

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Just received a free month of one of the porn channels, never done ‘paid for’ porn so will be interesting if there is quality there or is it just more of the same….

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@sammy-jo = nothing to be embarrassed about if anything embrace it. I’ve be men with my wife for ages and it was only after we’d been together for a few years that u found out she watched porn.

At first I was a bit confused but didn’t mind.

Now I don’t mind and we talk about it and I actually encourage it hehe.

When I know she’s away or I’m away I’ll mention it or suggest her watching it with her toys etc.

… I still can’t get her her to share the actual URLs with me though hehe work in progress enjoy!